(The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes, because it is the doorway to her heart, the place were love resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows.
The beauty of a woman with passing years only grows!)
the bottom line is; we look for love girls, look for security.
(((((drive safe away from carzy Land-cruisers)))))
Cool so I was right, woohoo! I haven't been in that situation (and will make sure that I won't be either!). I just put myself in their shoes and that's the only explanation I could think of.
Treysdad, there's a difference between the guy realizing that the relationship isn't as "sweet" as he thought and him going into the relationship with the intention of "getting her". If she didn't turn out to be "the sweet fruit" he thought she was, then breaking it off is fine. But if he's dating her just for sake of getting her to fall in love with him and then leave her then that's definitely not ok!
But let me give you an analogy (I hope I don't offend anybody):
It's like you see a fruit high up on a tree. It looks ripe and sweet and the color is inviting from afar. You make an effort to climb the trunk and nimble your way up the branches. You pick the fruit excitedly and after wiping on your shirt it shines more brightly. But when you bite it and its bitter, you throw it away. It maybe sour at first but you can enjoy it that way or eat it half-way and throw it away. But it's best when it's just right and sweet. So maybe it's the same reaction once you are a couple because that's the time you usually let your guards down. - IMHO....
I think men like to woe women cause they like the thrill of the chase, the action and adventure. Getting a women is a challenge, and they feel proud when they get her, and it's that feeling of pride and sucess they're after, so there's no use for her anymore so dump her and chase the next deer!
That's just my theory of "that" kind of men, not all of them :-)
and butterfly has it right...but that is all one woman rolled up into one...not 3 separate ones...which most women are, but the men have to bring it out in us...its NOT a one sided phenomenon...
Is a cook in the kitchen, a lady in the dining room and a w*ore in the bedroom. Or so my father used to say...no wonder his relationship never lasted that long!
Treysdad explain.... why do MEN woo women to the very end (that includes-sometimes promising you the moon and the stars) and once they're now a couple...it's a nice you see now you don't kind of thing....
a lot of men, and women, don't love who they marry...then it leads to other issues...
And..azzi...youcan't fish off a yacht...takes too much line, plus you reel them in (fish, not men) and they can shake off the hook..hence, the regular everyday boat is more desirable to most men...
ok before anything else, what im stating here is base from past experience and stories/situations from friends...nothing to do with you (you know who you are)..as explained, im pissed with someone from office, it just piled up while im talking to you and posting it here on QL...again nothing to do with you...:(
Yes momma azzy, im pissed good time, ..completely not relevant to the person you know..im pissed with someone from office..and the situation above are also different (being defensive here, you could tell)..so don't make 1+1 or he might get a wrong signal..might kill me..hehehehe
You're really on fire today girl! Yesterday you were the all so romantic lady but today you are furious...
"Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned".
Yes you're right regarding growing cold. There may be a lot of reasons, maybe a sudden fear of commitment, maybe a fear of not being able to meet the woman's standards, maybe the woman also changed from a sweet lady to a demanding witch or just plain carnal desire.... I don't know. It's different reasons for each one. So it is better for women to discern first before giving your all in love or else be ready also for great disppointment.
And don't say we men don't have our share of heartaches and disappointments also because we do. We just don't talk about it or cry about it with our friends. We were just told in our youth that men don't cry they just drink away.
acc 2 me the girl should be impressive, whenever u look at her u should feel proud, in many ways ur philosophy and mentality should match with each other, choices similar, patience, understanding,loving, caring, educated, funny, etc. etc
and in relation to this, sometimes they would hurt the ego of the woman by telling such stupid things about her being just to let her know that "hey, lady im done! see ya when i see ya!"..you always come up with lame excuses!..goodness! we are not that shallow and stupid...:P
You are right of course and I don't know the answer why. I think men like to have to really work for their women in every sense of the word. What I mean is that if a woman is too compliant, too easy going, too docile the man will take her for granted and lose interest.
Speaking for myself, I like "difficult" women who are smarter than me (that part is easy to find), who have opinions and interests of their own, who are wilful and unpredictable and who choose to spend time with me because they want to, not because they need to or because they can't find anyone else.
Victory attained by violence is tantamount to a defeat, for it is momentary. Mahatma Gandhi
I got the picture. "Meeting new people and trying new things" vs "nose in a book living vicariously through fictional characters." Very nice observation. Vivid.
MAN woos WOMAN, so sweet, thoughtful, knows when and what romantic things to say...just to get her to be his LADY.
Then once he got her...he becomes boring, takes her for granted, stops being the MR. ROMANTIC guy and complains that she's becomes too demanding and nagging...hmmmm
another question..why was it like that? whenever you guys get whatever you want from a lady/woman you sometimes just gone cold..(i know i will have to elaborate this later on..) but i know you all know what i mean..:D
But I mean why would a guy marry a party girl? I'm assuming guys want a decent wife not just a bar hook-up, u get me ?
But at the same time, if a guy is looking for a decent girl then he should date that decent girl! Not date a party girl...use her...and then throw her away and then expect his wife to be decent even though he wasn't. Double standards!
Sure Sure Corne. We know what you meant. No I just meant that I really really hate that saying. It just epitomizes whats wrong with men in the Middle East.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
I said one sentence...JUST ONE SENTENCE...and all the different types of interpretation in this world were posted lol. What I meant by party girl was the easy-to-get girl, the bimbo who's only after money and flashy cars, I didn't literally mean the girl who goes to parties! As for the library girl...I meant the decent, well-raised girl...I didn't literally mean the girl who sits in the library all day!! Geez sometimes u guys can be thick! LOL.
Azzy - "Does this necessarily lead to Marriage?" - answer is NO. because you may find the qualities you want in a woman but then does she find in you the qualities she wants in a man. Marriage is a decision of two persons not just one.
Owen - "what's this obsession with br...s" - It's not an obsession. It's to test the quality of the "reservoir of the sustenance of our future offsprings" so it will bear the seal "Kid tested, Father approved!" :)
At least when you are out partying Diana you are meeting people and trying new things, instead of just sitting in a library with your nose in a book living vicariously through fictional characters. There's nothing wrong with libraries when you have nothing better to do, but if I want to read I'll go to a coffee shop or a restaurant, the last thing I would do is sit in the library.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
MARRIAGE? HHHmmmmm.....i'm coming to that this coming december the word MARRIAGE..............but............not with the person whom i saw simplicity in her............lets see........MARRIAGE is a DANGER ZONE............
Yes I've been to plenty of libraries. I tend to check the books out and bring them home to read, rather then sit there and read them. Just because you like to go out for a night on the town and have fun doesn't mean you can't read.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
I'm single and enjoying it King. I just find that date the party girl marry the library girl saying funny. It's the exact opposite in Canada, the guys always marry the Party girl and wonder why she doesn't stay in on the weekends with them. :D
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
how are you doing these days? Long time no see .. you did not meet the right person for you yet, that is it. I can say that you are simply 'Pandora', so how can you die single? You are still young ... I'm the 26 years old guy here ....
Date the Party Girl, marry the Library girl???? Well that's why I'm going to die single. Who's wants to waste their life in a library, I'd rather enjoy the life I've been given.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
In character, in manners, in style, in all things……….Simplicity………that’s what I really look for in a woman………of course good sense of humor………someone who knows how to bring herself in every occasion called for………….lastly, who maintain her curves in the right places……………………….nothing more and nothing less
well .. i wrote my opinion + Callin me a boy is not gonna change anything lol so chill
Btw Action_inltd ppl get married From ppl they met online so haha why not Malls lol ?
azilana .. tip for the day Boys are future men :) if u think of me as a boy i dont mind u know why ? i am living my life instead tryin to live in lala land like ur doin !
i can read the topic .. but its fair to see the other sides opinion ? if u dont like to read my comments close ur eyes that would help heh .. ( Chill Woman ) i didnt offend any one Or didnt offend u so stop offending me plz .
back to our subj .. i look for sum one who accept me as i am .. and honesty :)
I was in love with a black lady and she wasn't that pretty .. and all my family and friends told me why would u marry her? she is not pretty at all .. but i was seeing no one except her .. my bro. told me if u married this girl i won't attend ur wedding party or visit u in ur home .. can u imagine how she was looking like?? and i still love her .. u need to learn a lot about Men (in case u r not one of them, didn't looked in ur profile)
NoLimit .. i won't tend to marry a girl that i know from a mall, club or the street .. so obviously i'll be looking for the cutest .. cuz she will be for either showing off or ......
Here daily you see couples walking hand in hand,the man is so cute and she is(i will say it friendly)overwight.Do you really think tall humans are the better ones?Strange.Everyone has the right to be how he is.And what is the beauty from outside against the beauty from a loving heart?Nothing!
wat i can say is that life is revolving .. Both sides say the same things .. girls if u say looks are not imp ? Well Let me see u Smile to an ugly guy in a mall ?? or in a club ? lol ..
even if he is good lookin its the same .. girls Want sum dumb guy Who would do everything without askin questions and guys wanna do sumthing else without the girl askin question ..
eg Girl to guy - DOnt go out ( guy Not askin why)
guy to girl - lift u legs up ( girl not askin Anything )
Ladies, If U Believe That, Guess U Sure Have A Lot To Learn !!!
The First Thing That The Guy Would Notice In a girl is her Cute face & her figure. I have never seen any guy approach a real fat/ugly girl so far. (Whoa, no offense meant here.)
they should ..u know wats the problem now zyga is not the question wat a man wants .. its wats a girl find in a man ?or wat does she look in a man ( and its not a honest man crap there is sumthin missing heheh ) its not Easy for a guy to get a girl now adays .. girls can get 10 men in a club ( every night ) so we men come cheaper by the dozen haha . Btw does any one know ( sorry not related to the topic ) when in Dj moe Has his next show on QBs ? That guy could entertain us During work . plz if u do know Answer back .
how are you doing? I'm doing fine ... just working now on your request [You & Owen] back there into Let's get Romantic thread ... will post it soon I guess :)
How is everyone doing this morning? Wishing you a happy & nice day, hope that the trouble would stay away from all of you this day and everyday. Enjoy your lunch , have a nice dinner ... we are here in Doha - Qatar :D
Regarding the topic ... what do men want to see in women or ... To me it is very simple, will talk about the details later.
I want to see her Soul through her Eyes ... that is it ..
I was also trying to figure out wut was that .. lol .. but i realized that it should be Breast ..
thanks azzy for helping
Owen .. i won't answer this or i'm the one who is going to be blocked .. hahaha.. it's obssession since we were babies .. so it grow up with us .. lol ..
and Mine is not Breast .. *whistleing* I love J. LO.
Gypsy Gal .. there are other factors in my life cuased that but i don't want to get naked in public .. it's my personal life and i have the right to keep the details for my self .. sorry no offense meant at all
But when the kids grow up we cannot really keep them with us, they will have to stay away from us for their studies..only upto 17 or 18 they will be us. I dont want to hijack this thread.
I think we all are looking for the same.Understanding,true love and honesty.So men and woman are not big different.But it is hard to find and if you found it,its a daily work to keep it and care for it.The bigest beauty is the beauty from a loving heart.
"Ram - You said you are not religious... does that mean that your mother was not religious that's why you are like this?? no offense meant... just a question"
nope .. My mum is very religious .. i know u will ask me why u r not religious too .. cuz i lived away from her when i joined the college and get known to some bad guys who drived me away from being religious ... after that when i lived with mom again she found that all wut she has built has been distroyed and she couldn't start it all over again .. she tried to advice me a lot but ... it was too late ..
yes Mr paul married thats one of the reasons he is leaving qatar to be with his family and as regards to me was married not any more looking for mrs right is SHE SHE out there lol
yes Mr paul married thats one of the reasons he is leaving qatar to be with his family and as regards to me was married not any more looking for mrs right is he out there lol
Ms. Scarlett, I always look forward in reading your posts, always cheery....thanks for the nice words you said for me the other day...
Corne, my sweet Corne, how are you baby? I miss your sweet smile...will i see you tonight?
Owen, stay in read mode...you need a lot of catching up to do at work. is your desk still visible or it's all covered with TO DO folders and stuff...hehehehe
To everyone, wish you all a nice day ahead of you...so back to the topic...as you were saying? :-)
hmmm..cool answers guys…..most of you summed up saying that looks are not that important...hmmm do guys really mean it? lol
Ram - You said you are not religious... does that mean that your mother was not religious that's why you are like this?? no offense meant... just a question
New studies shows that sex has got only 15% role in a happy marriage... 65% on communication between the partners..20% on other factors like... family
i know it's tough list .. but i don't ever lose hope .. but sometimes we can ignore things in the oppose of other things .. no one is perfect .. it's comprimising .. u know wut i mean
RAM, TOUGH list you got there...I'm impressed. You always got good ideas on many topics...kiddo
R7 Buddha, there's a lot of women who has that qualities but it'll be up to you to untap them from a woman. Usuaally, women reciprocates the feeling dfepending on how men treats them.
Darude, GM buddy!!!...women always do accept their man for what they are...as long as the man don't wallow on themselves...
Ok back to topic, me and my big mouth! now everyone's want to either date Corne or give her a mouthwash! Miz Scarlett u wait till tonight...I'll show u how to PARTAY ! As for u r7...start shaving those legs and putting on a dress if u want to join us :P
r-7 good morning man .. u r totally right .. i agree with u
Scarlett hi to u too .. and the best good morning ..
DaRude u said "Just that she should accept me for what i am"
I don't agree with u that it's enough .. u should accept her too .. i mean i'm not seeking for a girl who just accept me as i am although it's important point but me too shud accept her as she is .. and good morning to u too
I feel like having a nice b'fast with some yummy waffles n sausages n a nice big choco shake to wash it down .... man im hungry .... Its too early to b at work :(
U know Ram, when u have tht person with u and u get to know them and u feel tht bond and u know its more than just having a girlfriend the luv making is a thing tht just follows automatically... Being in luv can b really difficult but theres nothing better that one can experience in this life... It beats getting a new car or a raise or whatever else i could think off...
according to my friends who are guys...those you like to take around and show off(you know, the Barbie Doll type) and those you marry...the ones that are good inside and out.
Morning to you all well to be honest with you a good heart, honest, faithfull, true, good sence of humour,hold a converstation open minded and respect other views etc shall i go on looks is just a bonus but most important is the beauty on the inside
figure you know me better than that....mosts guys look deeper than the outside..or least I like to think they do..and yes, I noticed you look much deeper into a person than just the outer covering...you actually TALK...lol Just been on the receiving end of a lot of those that don't...ok, so WAY back in the Stone Age, I was...Sometimes it tough to get past that mindset when hit with it from all directions growing up. Again, though, that was America..and lots of men there are surface only, very shallow due to the influence of the media and advertisement. Stay like you are ram...you're a doll!
SEX is a gr8 part of marriage but it can't be all of it .. PLUS i believe that if the couple are loving each other then they will feel satsfied when making love even if he/she is not hot and sexy ..
there is a big difference between having sex and making love .. guys can be picky when having sex .. but when making love i guess it differs .. it's about the emotions and love that make them the most beautiful couple even if they r not ..
A woman with a good sense of humor and she has to be the most understanding person and should always be by my side...... And she should possess other qualities that i can't mention here :P
First of all .. loyality and honesty .. i can't live with someone who is telling lies or deceiving ppl ..
Second .. she must be sooooooo pretty FROM INSIDE .. i don't like to judge people from outside .. i will be happy to marry a lady which is not having beautiful face but so pretty from inside .. it's the beauty of soul (do i make any sense here)
Thirdly .. Religious .. i'm not religious but i hope that my kids be religious and they don't be bad as i was .. and i know that she gonna spend most of the time with them .. that's why i want her to be religious to plant that in my kids too
Fourth .. and this is more personal and i can ignore them but it will be preferable if they r exist .. to be a musician and/or Programmer (or computer geek) ... may be cuz those r the most topics i can talk a lot with non stop .. and that will not make us feel bored ..
Fifth .. Romantic .. Although i know that romance does not exist in our life any more but still i appreciate the romantic moments .. and we must find time for it ...
hope that i find my Mrs. Right ... but the question is will i be Mr. Right for her .. Sometimes we love a person but they don't feel the same towards us AND in the same time someone is loving us and we too Don't feel the same towards them ..
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I just wish all men would look it that way....just kidding...
I like to share this, with you all;
(The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes, because it is the doorway to her heart, the place were love resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows.
The beauty of a woman with passing years only grows!)
the bottom line is; we look for love girls, look for security.
(((((drive safe away from carzy Land-cruisers)))))
Cool so I was right, woohoo! I haven't been in that situation (and will make sure that I won't be either!). I just put myself in their shoes and that's the only explanation I could think of.
Treysdad, there's a difference between the guy realizing that the relationship isn't as "sweet" as he thought and him going into the relationship with the intention of "getting her". If she didn't turn out to be "the sweet fruit" he thought she was, then breaking it off is fine. But if he's dating her just for sake of getting her to fall in love with him and then leave her then that's definitely not ok!
when they don't say anything, at all? They just assume we know...
once the thrill of the "hunt" is over, some guys will just lose interest...and move on...its an odd phenomenon
But let me give you an analogy (I hope I don't offend anybody):
It's like you see a fruit high up on a tree. It looks ripe and sweet and the color is inviting from afar. You make an effort to climb the trunk and nimble your way up the branches. You pick the fruit excitedly and after wiping on your shirt it shines more brightly. But when you bite it and its bitter, you throw it away. It maybe sour at first but you can enjoy it that way or eat it half-way and throw it away. But it's best when it's just right and sweet. So maybe it's the same reaction once you are a couple because that's the time you usually let your guards down. - IMHO....
I think men like to woe women cause they like the thrill of the chase, the action and adventure. Getting a women is a challenge, and they feel proud when they get her, and it's that feeling of pride and sucess they're after, so there's no use for her anymore so dump her and chase the next deer!
That's just my theory of "that" kind of men, not all of them :-)
I do believe..least it is back home...
and butterfly has it right...but that is all one woman rolled up into one...not 3 separate ones...which most women are, but the men have to bring it out in us...its NOT a one sided phenomenon...
love build up as abuilding the stronger the base is the strongest it will grow..but sudden love vanishes suddenly
I thought men would go for yachts than boats?...silly me (lol):-)
Is a cook in the kitchen, a lady in the dining room and a w*ore in the bedroom. Or so my father used to say...no wonder his relationship never lasted that long!
Treysdad explain.... why do MEN woo women to the very end (that includes-sometimes promising you the moon and the stars) and once they're now a couple...it's a nice you see now you don't kind of thing....
Not talking about me here.
Yes I definitely agree with tresydad………….December, it’s a decision to make….who knows………..what the weather will be…no need to edit…
a lot of men, and women, don't love who they marry...then it leads to other issues...
And..azzi...youcan't fish off a yacht...takes too much line, plus you reel them in (fish, not men) and they can shake off the hook..hence, the regular everyday boat is more desirable to most men...
ok before anything else, what im stating here is base from past experience and stories/situations from friends...nothing to do with you (you know who you are)..as explained, im pissed with someone from office, it just piled up while im talking to you and posting it here on QL...again nothing to do with you...:(
will stop from here..
men need difrent things in the woman..as awife or as agirlfriend
once aman maried awoman he will forget all the past he had..and he will regret all the delay...:p
Yes momma azzy, im pissed good time, ..completely not relevant to the person you know..im pissed with someone from office..and the situation above are also different (being defensive here, you could tell)..so don't make 1+1 or he might get a wrong signal..might kill me..hehehehe
You're really on fire today girl! Yesterday you were the all so romantic lady but today you are furious...
"Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned".
Yes you're right regarding growing cold. There may be a lot of reasons, maybe a sudden fear of commitment, maybe a fear of not being able to meet the woman's standards, maybe the woman also changed from a sweet lady to a demanding witch or just plain carnal desire.... I don't know. It's different reasons for each one. So it is better for women to discern first before giving your all in love or else be ready also for great disppointment.
And don't say we men don't have our share of heartaches and disappointments also because we do. We just don't talk about it or cry about it with our friends. We were just told in our youth that men don't cry they just drink away.
some but not........... all r the same
Chill girl!!!!
Do tell Momma Azzy and I'll stomp that "guy" :-P (joking)
acc 2 me the girl should be impressive, whenever u look at her u should feel proud, in many ways ur philosophy and mentality should match with each other, choices similar, patience, understanding,loving, caring, educated, funny, etc. etc
and in relation to this, sometimes they would hurt the ego of the woman by telling such stupid things about her being just to let her know that "hey, lady im done! see ya when i see ya!"..you always come up with lame excuses!..goodness! we are not that shallow and stupid...:P
You are right of course and I don't know the answer why. I think men like to have to really work for their women in every sense of the word. What I mean is that if a woman is too compliant, too easy going, too docile the man will take her for granted and lose interest.
Speaking for myself, I like "difficult" women who are smarter than me (that part is easy to find), who have opinions and interests of their own, who are wilful and unpredictable and who choose to spend time with me because they want to, not because they need to or because they can't find anyone else.
Victory attained by violence is tantamount to a defeat, for it is momentary. Mahatma Gandhi
I got the picture. "Meeting new people and trying new things" vs "nose in a book living vicariously through fictional characters." Very nice observation. Vivid.
Thank God, I am library girl. :)
MAN woos WOMAN, so sweet, thoughtful, knows when and what romantic things to say...just to get her to be his LADY.
Then once he got her...he becomes boring, takes her for granted, stops being the MR. ROMANTIC guy and complains that she's becomes too demanding and nagging...hmmmm
Explain...explain...explain...
because of my fury i miss this announcement...scorpio27?..is this true or?..:P
Is that an early announcement? on QL? :)
another question..why was it like that? whenever you guys get whatever you want from a lady/woman you sometimes just gone cold..(i know i will have to elaborate this later on..) but i know you all know what i mean..:D
But I mean why would a guy marry a party girl? I'm assuming guys want a decent wife not just a bar hook-up, u get me ?
But at the same time, if a guy is looking for a decent girl then he should date that decent girl! Not date a party girl...use her...and then throw her away and then expect his wife to be decent even though he wasn't. Double standards!
It is an obsession. Speaking strictly for myself of course.
Victory attained by violence is tantamount to a defeat, for it is momentary. Mahatma Gandhi
Good points there...but I agree with DIANA that marriage is just the beginning...
Sure Sure Corne. We know what you meant. No I just meant that I really really hate that saying. It just epitomizes whats wrong with men in the Middle East.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
I said one sentence...JUST ONE SENTENCE...and all the different types of interpretation in this world were posted lol. What I meant by party girl was the easy-to-get girl, the bimbo who's only after money and flashy cars, I didn't literally mean the girl who goes to parties! As for the library girl...I meant the decent, well-raised girl...I didn't literally mean the girl who sits in the library all day!! Geez sometimes u guys can be thick! LOL.
Just because one like to be library girl doesn't mean one can't dance all night long. :)
What?...when?...with whom?....
Darn...where's the emoticons when you need them...lol
To answer your questions:
Azzy - "Does this necessarily lead to Marriage?" - answer is NO. because you may find the qualities you want in a woman but then does she find in you the qualities she wants in a man. Marriage is a decision of two persons not just one.
Owen - "what's this obsession with br...s" - It's not an obsession. It's to test the quality of the "reservoir of the sustenance of our future offsprings" so it will bear the seal "Kid tested, Father approved!" :)
At least when you are out partying Diana you are meeting people and trying new things, instead of just sitting in a library with your nose in a book living vicariously through fictional characters. There's nothing wrong with libraries when you have nothing better to do, but if I want to read I'll go to a coffee shop or a restaurant, the last thing I would do is sit in the library.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
MARRIAGE? HHHmmmmm.....i'm coming to that this coming december the word MARRIAGE..............but............not with the person whom i saw simplicity in her............lets see........MARRIAGE is a DANGER ZONE............
Nobody saying that you can't read. But you started with all that "waste of life in library". :)
Party all life long, well, it is sort of waste too. ;)
yes gypsy - u r right there!
just because you can dance the night away doesn't mean you cant read.....a lot!
So shallow. Go for shipyard! :)
Yes I've been to plenty of libraries. I tend to check the books out and bring them home to read, rather then sit there and read them. Just because you like to go out for a night on the town and have fun doesn't mean you can't read.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
You are also still young.Sweet26.Smile.
*NOBODY IS PERFECT.I AM NOBODY.*
Have you ever been in library? It is not so bad as you might think. :)
Well, I don't mind if the lady has a yacht:)
I'm single and enjoying it King. I just find that date the party girl marry the library girl saying funny. It's the exact opposite in Canada, the guys always marry the Party girl and wonder why she doesn't stay in on the weekends with them. :D
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Marriage is just a beginning. :)
how are you doing these days? Long time no see .. you did not meet the right person for you yet, that is it. I can say that you are simply 'Pandora', so how can you die single? You are still young ... I'm the 26 years old guy here ....
or the woman who owns the boat...why not a yacht?...lol
Date the Party Girl, marry the Library girl???? Well that's why I'm going to die single. Who's wants to waste their life in a library, I'd rather enjoy the life I've been given.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
When you find that woman, please let me know. Am interested also.
All of you look for these qualities, but are these would lead you to marry the woman?
In character, in manners, in style, in all things……….Simplicity………that’s what I really look for in a woman………of course good sense of humor………someone who knows how to bring herself in every occasion called for………….lastly, who maintain her curves in the right places……………………….nothing more and nothing less
I am looking for a good woman with a fishing boat. Please send picture of boat. LOL
well .. i wrote my opinion + Callin me a boy is not gonna change anything lol so chill
Btw Action_inltd ppl get married From ppl they met online so haha why not Malls lol ?
azilana .. tip for the day Boys are future men :) if u think of me as a boy i dont mind u know why ? i am living my life instead tryin to live in lala land like ur doin !
i can read the topic .. but its fair to see the other sides opinion ? if u dont like to read my comments close ur eyes that would help heh .. ( Chill Woman ) i didnt offend any one Or didnt offend u so stop offending me plz .
back to our subj .. i look for sum one who accept me as i am .. and honesty :)
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I was in love with a black lady and she wasn't that pretty .. and all my family and friends told me why would u marry her? she is not pretty at all .. but i was seeing no one except her .. my bro. told me if u married this girl i won't attend ur wedding party or visit u in ur home .. can u imagine how she was looking like?? and i still love her .. u need to learn a lot about Men (in case u r not one of them, didn't looked in ur profile)
NoLimit .. i won't tend to marry a girl that i know from a mall, club or the street .. so obviously i'll be looking for the cutest .. cuz she will be for either showing off or ......
Got it ..
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NL i sense bitterness in your responses.......chill dude
I don't look the face and body,but i am sure that i look age.We can not see their beauty by face and body.
"Drink Beer Save Water"
Got to do with the attitude on how MEN perceive a WOMAN and vice versa?
Typical of you to base everything on physical attributes. What we're talking here is what MEN is looking for a WOMAN...
We're asking the MEN here...not boys pretending to be MEN...
Here daily you see couples walking hand in hand,the man is so cute and she is(i will say it friendly)overwight.Do you really think tall humans are the better ones?Strange.Everyone has the right to be how he is.And what is the beauty from outside against the beauty from a loving heart?Nothing!
*NOBODY IS PERFECT.I AM NOBODY.*
wat i can say is that life is revolving .. Both sides say the same things .. girls if u say looks are not imp ? Well Let me see u Smile to an ugly guy in a mall ?? or in a club ? lol ..
even if he is good lookin its the same .. girls Want sum dumb guy Who would do everything without askin questions and guys wanna do sumthing else without the girl askin question ..
eg Girl to guy - DOnt go out ( guy Not askin why)
guy to girl - lift u legs up ( girl not askin Anything )
hahah well its true isnt it?
NO LIMIT
Guys, If U Say Looks Ain't Important, Ur Kidding.
Ladies, If U Believe That, Guess U Sure Have A Lot To Learn !!!
The First Thing That The Guy Would Notice In a girl is her Cute face & her figure. I have never seen any guy approach a real fat/ugly girl so far. (Whoa, no offense meant here.)
Second thing's gonne be her humour sense.
Third, her compatibility with him.
& The Rest Is HISTORY.
Cheers Mate(s) !!!
Girl can get guys in a club but they usually just want a cheap thrill. er guys that is not the girls....
Finding quality is a completely different thing......and those do not come cheaper by the dozen....sadly for us ladeeez.
If she is even half of what i would have been had i been born female, then she is the perfect match for me.
Just meant to say that I would be looking for compatability - of mind, body and soul.
{Easier said than done, but then, i am ok to wait for the proverbial eternity.}
they should ..u know wats the problem now zyga is not the question wat a man wants .. its wats a girl find in a man ?or wat does she look in a man ( and its not a honest man crap there is sumthin missing heheh ) its not Easy for a guy to get a girl now adays .. girls can get 10 men in a club ( every night ) so we men come cheaper by the dozen haha . Btw does any one know ( sorry not related to the topic ) when in Dj moe Has his next show on QBs ? That guy could entertain us During work . plz if u do know Answer back .
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how are you doing? I'm doing fine ... just working now on your request [You & Owen] back there into Let's get Romantic thread ... will post it soon I guess :)
Have a nice day.
good morning to u too .. good morning every body ..
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The strength of a Man isn't in the deep tone of his voice.
The strength of a Woman isn't in the deep tone of her dammy Cry.
It is in the gentle words they whispers.
The strength of a Man isn't in how respected he is at work.
The strength of a Woman isn't in how respected She is at Kitty party.
It is in how respected they are at home.
The strength of a man isn't in the weight he can lift.
The strength of a Woman isn't in how smart she is in fooling a man.
It is in the responsibilities & burden they can carry.
Have a nice day too and keep always your charme.
;-D
*NOBODY IS PERFECT.I AM NOBODY.*
I agree its soooooo boring at work my eyes keep closing..... there should be a QL drop in coffee point where we can dive in and out.......
good morning guys Love the topic . bored in work ..
keep those posts comng . or i am gonna Shoot my self of boredm
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How is everyone doing this morning? Wishing you a happy & nice day, hope that the trouble would stay away from all of you this day and everyday. Enjoy your lunch , have a nice dinner ... we are here in Doha - Qatar :D
Regarding the topic ... what do men want to see in women or ... To me it is very simple, will talk about the details later.
I want to see her Soul through her Eyes ... that is it ..
I was also trying to figure out wut was that .. lol .. but i realized that it should be Breast ..
thanks azzy for helping
Owen .. i won't answer this or i'm the one who is going to be blocked .. hahaha.. it's obssession since we were babies .. so it grow up with us .. lol ..
and Mine is not Breast .. *whistleing* I love J. LO.
Gypsy Gal .. there are other factors in my life cuased that but i don't want to get naked in public .. it's my personal life and i have the right to keep the details for my self .. sorry no offense meant at all
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I think I'm to be banned next...lol
OK I will give the first clue:
BC = Brain Cells
Help me man What is berast ? can you give some example,definition ?
"Drink Beer Save Water"
guys can you please help buddy senti here...:D
Berast or Berets ? i am confused
"Drink Beer Save Water"
I'm still trying to figure that one out... R7... get your ass to doing some work now!
ok..understood.
But when the kids grow up we cannot really keep them with us, they will have to stay away from us for their studies..only upto 17 or 18 they will be us. I dont want to hijack this thread.
Good thread and no comments...
yup, have tons of papers on my desks and emails to reply to...
but have one question for guys..what's your obssession with berast?
will i be blocked with this? hope not..:P
I think we all are looking for the same.Understanding,true love and honesty.So men and woman are not big different.But it is hard to find and if you found it,its a daily work to keep it and care for it.The bigest beauty is the beauty from a loving heart.
:-)I believe in this.
*NOBODY IS PERFECT.I AM NOBODY.*
Don't know what that itinial stands for...better start your contest...lol.
But what's in the pot for thw winner?
Should be/have BC.L.S.NF.SL.RB.WP.HB.OM.F.FB.H
So you can guess what each one means :)
Guess we cannot start guessing sessions here as some abbreviations are X-rated. OR shall we start a contest.
"Ram - You said you are not religious... does that mean that your mother was not religious that's why you are like this?? no offense meant... just a question"
nope .. My mum is very religious .. i know u will ask me why u r not religious too .. cuz i lived away from her when i joined the college and get known to some bad guys who drived me away from being religious ... after that when i lived with mom again she found that all wut she has built has been distroyed and she couldn't start it all over again .. she tried to advice me a lot but ... it was too late ..
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to be honest with you i dont know for me its legs for my all the way lol
Its not an obsession its more like a a fascination :P ....
yes Mr paul married thats one of the reasons he is leaving qatar to be with his family and as regards to me was married not any more looking for mrs right is SHE SHE out there lol
yes Mr paul married thats one of the reasons he is leaving qatar to be with his family and as regards to me was married not any more looking for mrs right is he out there lol
AWWW So sweet Azi thnx :)
were not all the same lol
You two should JUST be WATCHING and NOT LOOKING as both of you are MARRIED...right? ...lol
Good morning...thought you will have a long list of requirements...but you are just a simple guy with attitude..lol
I look kitchen drunker.
"Drink Beer Save Water"
what about me and mr paul lol
I'm happy for you!!! I can tell she's very happy to find someone like you...sweet, charming and one of the nicest guy I met in QL...
Ms. Scarlett, I always look forward in reading your posts, always cheery....thanks for the nice words you said for me the other day...
Corne, my sweet Corne, how are you baby? I miss your sweet smile...will i see you tonight?
Owen, stay in read mode...you need a lot of catching up to do at work. is your desk still visible or it's all covered with TO DO folders and stuff...hehehehe
To everyone, wish you all a nice day ahead of you...so back to the topic...as you were saying? :-)
Carrefour is open till 12am midnight lets meet at coffee then at 12am :D LOL
Good Morning to you and Azzi and Doc wazzup Doc corny and Ram and High Voltage Rock TCasbah IOu Gypsy Kuriye :D
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Azi I never mentioned, that i have'nt untapped those qualities in someone :)
hmmm..cool answers guys…..most of you summed up saying that looks are not that important...hmmm do guys really mean it? lol
Ram - You said you are not religious... does that mean that your mother was not religious that's why you are like this?? no offense meant... just a question
New studies shows that sex has got only 15% role in a happy marriage... 65% on communication between the partners..20% on other factors like... family
background...education...moral values etc..
i know it's tough list .. but i don't ever lose hope .. but sometimes we can ignore things in the oppose of other things .. no one is perfect .. it's comprimising .. u know wut i mean
Carrefour also open at 8 or 9 am max.
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if you live near it...I don't know if Carrefour's open now...
Everyone's bright and early today, are we?....lol
RAM, TOUGH list you got there...I'm impressed. You always got good ideas on many topics...kiddo
R7 Buddha, there's a lot of women who has that qualities but it'll be up to you to untap them from a woman. Usuaally, women reciprocates the feeling dfepending on how men treats them.
Darude, GM buddy!!!...women always do accept their man for what they are...as long as the man don't wallow on themselves...
Johnjo, it's also what us women look for a a MAN
there is a lot that u don't know about Men ..
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I don't think it is, usually opens at 10ish (i think)
"Date the party girl and marry the library girl" .. i liked that a lot .. that's really true .. that wut guys do ..
in egypt we say each man should have 3 women
one for showing up
another for bed
and third for marriage
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man guys here turned out to be WAY more romantic than I thought! I'm telling u guys QL is really turning into a huge marshmallow!
man guys here turned out to be WAY more romantic than I thought! I'm telling u guys QL is really turning into a huge marshmallow!
went shopping yesterday as I was out of everything...but forgot the one main thing I went for...typical...
I would look for a woman that love me as much as i love her, with true love every good thing well be there ...
Carrefour's open now ??
Ok back to topic, me and my big mouth! now everyone's want to either date Corne or give her a mouthwash! Miz Scarlett u wait till tonight...I'll show u how to PARTAY ! As for u r7...start shaving those legs and putting on a dress if u want to join us :P
said plus women are ace. Do I win?
party ON!!! LOL just kidding...
I will be back later on folks...I have to run to Carrefores cause I forgot soap..goodness knows I need it!
Ok I edited that last part as I don't want to give anyone a wrong impression of you sweetie...
good morning..so go on guys, continue..just reading and interested here..:P
So when can v start dating corn ??!! :P
Bonjour!
As u said Scarlett there are two types of women...over here we say "Date the party girl and marry the library girl" ;)
r-7 good morning man .. u r totally right .. i agree with u
Scarlett hi to u too .. and the best good morning ..
DaRude u said "Just that she should accept me for what i am"
I don't agree with u that it's enough .. u should accept her too .. i mean i'm not seeking for a girl who just accept me as i am although it's important point but me too shud accept her as she is .. and good morning to u too
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I feel like having a nice b'fast with some yummy waffles n sausages n a nice big choco shake to wash it down .... man im hungry .... Its too early to b at work :(
Ohh fiddledeedee.....
Good Morning to u 2 ... My Lady
hi owen, DaRuDe, Johnjo, r-7, ram, jauntie and azi!!!!
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morning
U know Ram, when u have tht person with u and u get to know them and u feel tht bond and u know its more than just having a girlfriend the luv making is a thing tht just follows automatically... Being in luv can b really difficult but theres nothing better that one can experience in this life... It beats getting a new car or a raise or whatever else i could think off...
according to my friends who are guys...those you like to take around and show off(you know, the Barbie Doll type) and those you marry...the ones that are good inside and out.
Hmm am simple
Just that she should accept me for what i am.
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good morning guys..guess i'll be on "read mode" on this thread..:D
Morning to you all well to be honest with you a good heart, honest, faithfull, true, good sence of humour,hold a converstation open minded and respect other views etc shall i go on looks is just a bonus but most important is the beauty on the inside
figure you know me better than that....mosts guys look deeper than the outside..or least I like to think they do..and yes, I noticed you look much deeper into a person than just the outer covering...you actually TALK...lol Just been on the receiving end of a lot of those that don't...ok, so WAY back in the Stone Age, I was...Sometimes it tough to get past that mindset when hit with it from all directions growing up. Again, though, that was America..and lots of men there are surface only, very shallow due to the influence of the media and advertisement. Stay like you are ram...you're a doll!
Ohh fiddledeedee.....
I'm always different .. ;)
SEX is a gr8 part of marriage but it can't be all of it .. PLUS i believe that if the couple are loving each other then they will feel satsfied when making love even if he/she is not hot and sexy ..
there is a big difference between having sex and making love .. guys can be picky when having sex .. but when making love i guess it differs .. it's about the emotions and love that make them the most beautiful couple even if they r not ..
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A woman with a good sense of humor and she has to be the most understanding person and should always be by my side...... And she should possess other qualities that i can't mention here :P
I would like to start the topic ...
First of all .. loyality and honesty .. i can't live with someone who is telling lies or deceiving ppl ..
Second .. she must be sooooooo pretty FROM INSIDE .. i don't like to judge people from outside .. i will be happy to marry a lady which is not having beautiful face but so pretty from inside .. it's the beauty of soul (do i make any sense here)
Thirdly .. Religious .. i'm not religious but i hope that my kids be religious and they don't be bad as i was .. and i know that she gonna spend most of the time with them .. that's why i want her to be religious to plant that in my kids too
Fourth .. and this is more personal and i can ignore them but it will be preferable if they r exist .. to be a musician and/or Programmer (or computer geek) ... may be cuz those r the most topics i can talk a lot with non stop .. and that will not make us feel bored ..
Fifth .. Romantic .. Although i know that romance does not exist in our life any more but still i appreciate the romantic moments .. and we must find time for it ...
hope that i find my Mrs. Right ... but the question is will i be Mr. Right for her .. Sometimes we love a person but they don't feel the same towards us AND in the same time someone is loving us and we too Don't feel the same towards them ..
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standing naked with beer in hand...wonder if its changed....
Men have such a short requirement list...
I hope they get the answers right - dead meat on the roadside is so, so ugly *big grin*