Personal Life

in my case, it's coz of my loneliness only...though, I've a large friends circle...I wanted to go with this loneliness, as I am afraid of the distance that everyone has started developing...(everyone might be thinking like this...)

as for me,all i sought were some genuinely unbiased answers froma group of people i don't know...people i thought who will tackle the problem without taking into consideration the people involved in it.

"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”

~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)

"Is this the result of loneliness or just stupidity?" Yes stupid they are.

Personal life of a person is his own "property". Only weak, lonely,stupid people expose their personal life to public.

Also, beside loneliness and stupidity, is low self confidence and attention-seeking (lots of here in QL)

I personally feels those who does not have self

confidence and quite confused in making decisions; opt to take online support with anonymous/strangers; without knowing the credibility of such individuals :)

Sometimes, it is advisable to remain anonymous and ask sensitive personal questions and due to certain social taboo cases......to check around what is the general concensus in any given circumstances.

They feel more happy with cyber buddy/support.

It is all up to an individual as we all said; very much prerogative :)

naming and shaming them does not change anything...nor does it undo what they have done.and if i do so,that would make me no different from them.i'd rather remain dignified.i just hope they read this post and (even if it for a moment) feel regret for their deed.

"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”

~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)

using my phrases on me :/

Hang upside down in your closet holding weights Da.

"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce

i also have a personal problem will you help me on that. i want to get tall. Any advise or advice will be appreciated. :D

Name and shame the offensive pm senders. And yep no more sarcastic comments from my part.

Guys it's an open forum, and people can use it for what they like. If some people have no problems discussing personal issues on a public forum, more power to them. I don't see why it has to bother you? Personally I enjoy the more "personal" threads and I don't mind giving advise. If you don't like them deepb, stick to the funnies and the salary questions, but don't insult those people who do post them and like them. That just makes you sound pretentious.

"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce

if people know who's posting the personal Life issue , then it might cause the poster some problems ... but if they are online Forum mates Annonymous to each other... they can post personal life matters ... only to get another vision , another idea to solve an issue ... U KNOW , WE'RE DIFFERENT . SO WE COME UP WITH DIFFERENT IDEAS BASED ON HOW WE SEE THE SITUATION ... SO just learn about protecting urself and if u need help ... WE're HERE on QL ..

Chao GUYS & GALS

sarcasm does sound good at times.

a message to nobody in particular...in case anybody is trying to agitate me,i am afraid all attempts will fail.the svelte_saggi that existed until two days back is dead and gone.thanks for killing her.she was quite an object of extreme irritation for many on this forum and also a topic of discussion of many a QL soiree.i hereby apologise to any individual who has felt offended by any word or deed of mine.i was just being myself.i guess it's better to heed the words of many of the more wiser internet users and try being everything that i am not in the virtual world.guess that should make people happy :-) afterall,what bigger happiness exists than seeing somebody becoming happy and you being the reason for it,isn't it?

another humble request...please stop sending me offensive private messages.thank you.

"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”

~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)

But but but.... I need my support FS. Without the moral support of strangers in an online forum, I would be devastated. My life as I know it would come to an end. Oh the cruelties of internet.

:-)

"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”

~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)

Happy and deep..I dont SUPPORT or SECOND you both..lol

I only support what I say and do..lol

Yep...prerogative works both ways...:)________________________________________

One life to live, live it to the fullest.

True no one said its not allowed. It's their own choice.

'Tis better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt'

-ABRAHAM LINCOLN

i second you on that s_isale :-)

"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”

~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)

that's pretty typical.

"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”

~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)

IT is the prerogative of each one right..

:-)

"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”

~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)

Oh never mind, I figured it out.

When they discover the center of the universe, a lot of people will be disappointed to discover they are not it.

- Bernard Bailey

support? I'm a bit confused here.

thanks for the support,afrinnabees and sarahkis :-)

"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”

~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)

Not all forums and threads are dirty clothes.I agree some are silly.As svelte saggi said, its all true. This site has really helped people and am one of them.I had a personal problem and I got help and encouranged here.

So if you read and you find it silly don't bother coz someone else might get help,an answer or encourangement from what seems to be silly to you. Now I will write about my Good News. Check the answers HIV symptoms.

"Think" would be the keyword there I "think" FS.

See what I did there :P

deep...dont you know people just have the freedom to think and do whatever they want..and they like to be different...unlike some of us who think otherwise..lol actually I typed a similar thread and deleted it..lol

i go on with svelte saggi

and sometimes people post their personal problems in an attempt to get unbiased answers.confiding in a friend/relative will not always yield the right answer.with the shield of anonymity,you get answers from a larger crowd who does not know any person you are talking about.it is the problem they try to help you out with.not you.

and in some cases,it may be a situation where a friend or loved one is going through a problem and people approach an online forum to seek a solution as he/she sincerely wishes to help his/her friend but is totally lost trying to do so.

i have spoken for myself.

"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”

~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)

Sometimes the privilege of remaining anonymous is a bliss and people share their personal problems here just because of that. Thats what I think.

Nope I'm not affected Kuquels. But its kinda annoying at times. Asking opinions from strangers about how you should deal in your personal life is not the best idea. Thats what a friend is supposed to be there for. That's my opinion at the very least.

There can be something good said about hotels in Eastern Sudan? :P ;)

"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce

I am not trying to Cyber Bully hotels in Eastern Sudan either... ! although that was here and on the Lonely Planet travel forum...

One of the reasons are quite true........people are exteremely bored and love to hit COMPUTER in spurt of frustration >>>>>>>>

Oryx I swear I'm not trying to cyber bully my "residential tower" :P

"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce

I am surprised by how much people put on Facebook....

I don't like the cyber-bullying trend - it disgusts me.

Got an issue with someone sort it privately.

Praise publicly criticize privately

Fo some people they needed other's opinion, while others are seeking attention, and etc. as u mentioned

Anyhow, to each his own reason as long as the MODS are allowing them to publish these things.

Why are u so affected? @ deepb

I am always ready to help with advice whether to dump one of them, or both of them, or all of them...

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."

Oliver Wendell Holmes

personl life and issues should not be brought to online and virtual forms!

How can you trust without a face...though some you might know but majority is anonymous.

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Have Courage To Live.

Anyone Can Die.

I post so many things here which are from my "personal life" except ofcourse I am bluffing most of the time :P

Just gives credibility to my stories ;)

Now don't tell anyone this ok :P

**** Aal Izz Well****

deepb...I have been having the same thoughts for a few days...but what to do yani...:)

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One life to live, live it to the fullest.

you're not missing anything deepb, you've mentioned all the reasons :P

www.live365.com/stations/thevault85

For some people it might be that they actually KNOW some of the people on this site personally and forget themselves a bit. I know I'm guilty of that....

"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce