For MARRIED ladies & gentlemen only

when you are down, when you are in trouble, when you are confused and dont know what to do, the first thing you do is pray to God and seek his guidance, sometimes we even asked for a sign of His real plan for us ....

but sometimes, signs are also not true!

because i already found my better half...

"Even if  LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."

He had a great house.

He took me to expensive restaurants.

He had a handsome brother, who liked me a lot but was already married, so it was a good cover up.

And I was pregnant with twins. Just kidding.

It was Love, love, love.

Chemistry as well.

Kismet

Glad to hear that it worked out..

i heard you ksarat... ur one of those hijackers of my post... so better invite me on the next party u will be hosting... ;)

thanks to those who have shared in this post... i enjoyed and learn from your insights... i agree, one's decision in getting married should still come from themselves... own choice, own decision, own happiness...

Well girl, I wouldn't really wanna know how did he explain me to you...atleast not on the mainboard forum, there are a lot of potential single ladies watching you see..LOL...how bout a quick PM...LOL!!!

And yes I would have thought to, BUSY in the movies...LOL!!!good for you girl, just a few days before Anniversary, reliving a few moments is always helpful to bring back that liveliness and spice in the relation isnt it...

Notfromhere, naaa naaa I aint picking on you girl, well just letting you know that you dont actually spell it out to the original poster of the thread that its been hijacked, more like adding fuel to the fire...LOL!!!Dont you think...

I had a very lively life before I got married. I was living on some of the most happening places (NYC, LA, Delhi, Bangalore etc). Had lot of friends and we spent all our nights out in Pubs, Discthqs and many more fun places. But, after few years, all those started boring..None of there activites felt meaningful without a commitment and someone to share...Ok, how many can you keep driking and dancing and partying in your life...I got really tired of being single..I needed a change...a real change that will bring completely new perception about life to me...

So, I got married!!!

Five years now, I feel I'd better go back to bachelor life ;-)...

NOOO, Just kidding. I enjoy being married and being father of 2 cute kids..my sons bring a lot of meaning to my life, everday...everymoment...

I'm lovin' it!!!!!

yep yep KSA he told me abt it and i figured it was you (as he did not know yr name).....yeah of course we were 'busy' at the movies not always we get to watch a movie just the 2 of us........lol>oops

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

I was too busy enjoying myself. Then i met an amazing lady, who made me believe that we should settle down. Haven't regretted it for a single day.

Boo hoo ksa, don't pick on me..... shreeya mentioned it first. Poor little me, I'm new here, just trying to follow y'alls lead. :-(

I have known my wife from the time we were 12 years of age, we got married at 24yrs and have known each other totally now for 27 years. We have had our share of ups and down, but have pulled through together,Alhamdollilah!

She wasnt a moslem when we met but today she is a practising one, all her own wish, Its like 5 men can take a horse to water, 10 cant make it drink.

So to each his own,

But do get married all you single folks out there, its a joy in so many ways that only married people can experience

you either can choose to be SAAAAAAAAD or Lively with a lot of humour and you know me, being me is quite tough and I choose to be on the livelier side...

speaking of which, I met your DS yesterday at the CC...he told me DM and DH are busy in the Movie...LOL!!!sorry he actually me, that mom and dad are in the movie, I just added "BUSY"...LOL!!!

Then I reminded him that I still own his Azz in Bowling in my team, Franchise rights I would say...LOL!!!

lol @ KSA you are so funny man..........

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

A small silent rule...

When a Thread is Hijacked, pls dont mention it so as to offend the original poster...because any thread is bound to be hijacked sooner or later...LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now guess Greentea would be coming running to whack us Party Animals, all because of you girl...see what you have done...

Good one Shreeya...

Spicemom, Holddddddddddd ITTTTTTTTTt...I never said anything of Pool Party...so dont you dare step into my house Mommy...about your treat well that is something that I would take for SURE...get it...

lol, greentea, your thread was totally hijacked by party animals!

mabrouk to your parents on their golden anniv

So Formatted soul is one more victim of a marriage, can you see Greentea?

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KSA -yay a pool party??woohoo

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

yes DaRuDe - i am singing (only when nobody is around)

KSA - wanna celebrate??sure but dunno wat my other half has planned , my treat??have not the slightest idea either....lol(for all ya know he may just wrap himself with gift wrap with a huge red ribbon ah there is my largest gift ever.........lol)

in life we plan but what is already fated is beyond our control..........

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

Well no idea girl, all I know was that she went to India a couple of weeks, and she returned back on Thursday...but still no signs of being online, I think her Hubby has tied her to the Seat saying no... HELL NO QL for you girl...LOL!!!How you doing...

Hell No anyone of you getting close to my house I tell ya...well guess what people, the house is all ready, constructed and today I m gng to leave the pool water to start filling in...yipppeeee.......

Speaking of which, guys does anyone of you know where to get a Pool Cover...and whats the approx cost...any idea?

Where is 'Formated soul' hiding nowadays? Sorry for hijacking...continue with marriage...

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i thinks is not anybody's concern but only you alone... and the reason for it shud not base on others decision nor anything but yours.

i choose to be, dats all. morning evry1. :)

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"Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees, you're in the perfect position to pray" (anonymous)

yeah i mean cribs as your place and thanks for the correction spicy, you woman with know-it-all gift

I DO WHAT I LIKE, I LIKE WHAT I DO

ksarat jaaaaaannn... yes we should party before i go holiday for one month and half. is your cribs available???

I DO WHAT I LIKE, I LIKE WHAT I DO

i WAS married,i choosed my hubby of my own,i thought he is the best for me.I was wrong.But still,i do not regret.

Why should it?That time it was right for me.

Anyway,i know i will do it again.

And again it will be only my desicion,i will ask nobody for permission,so the only one which is resonable for all following things is me,and me and me again.

:D

Cheers

Hell yeah girl, I am singing, (whichever that song was..LOL!!!)

And hey girl, dont you dare act smart with me alright, where is the treat from your Dear Hubby for having sustained you for so long, doesnt he want to celebrate with us...all...LOL!!!

 guys planing and whats this spicemom singing :?

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me thinks she means CRIB as in -yr place, yr pad, yr hse.......(i may be wrong)

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

thank you thank you all for yr wishes........by the time i reach my golden ann i will prolly be one of them ladies in The Golden GALS.......lol

KSA - is that you singin "Shower Me with Yr Love"? i hear ya loud and clear fr over here........

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

Did you just mean CRIPS as in HOUSE...

Pls confirm that...or rather clarify, and when are you leaving by the way, (leaving me and going...:(

for that long how do I stay without you...(same like now...LOL!!!)

And yes girl, we shud party this time for once reall nice...

Happy anniversay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one

we too had just celebrated our parents golden anniversary this year.

cheers

If you believe, you will receive what you ask for in prayer

I know what you mean. We're coming up on 20... Wait! 20 years? Aren't I only 21 years old?? Where does the time go, lol

You have too much love to give away...LOL!!! YOU know I couldnt stay missing that line of yours...I m right here, and am ready for a shower...of love..LOL!!!

O well, partyyyyyyyyy we better have it girl...YOU HEAR ME GIRL??? Dragon, dont you think we deserve a party...at the end of the month...

thank you notfrhere........is amazing that it has been that long , alhamdullillah..........

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

Happy Anniversary, spicemom! :-)

thank you dragon........>i got so much lovin to give..........muahhhhhhh

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

wallah.. spicy, you really bring backs the romance in the air. kudos to you.

I DO WHAT I LIKE, I LIKE WHAT I DO

i got married as i found 'my love' and want to share the rest of my life (soppy huh??-lol) with him and come end of this mth is our 18th ann and 20 yrs together.....

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

It just happened but you have to follow your dreams. Since am lil girl I want to travel the world and married to white man, and I just follow my dreams and its happened. So is start from you first...

I DO WHAT I LIKE, I LIKE WHAT I DO

thought the cardinal rule is marry someone you love??? did i get it wrong? maybe that's y i haven't tied that proverbial knot yet!

:)

Whose rule is that? And what might the consequences be for my having broken this rule?

engaged for 4 years. We are celebrating our 24th and going strong

dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one

you maybe an exception but you'll find the consequence not now, maybe in the future

dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one

The cardinal rule is "marry somebody of same religion"? Really?

According to whom?

nice one

someone you really love but above this rule is marry somebody of same religion meaning you put God above all things.

Secondly, a long engagement will give you insights of what you'll be your future husband will be (this is the same reason use by those who goes to live-in condition but you know it's against morality) meaning you go on the moral limits only.

Thirdly, there is really "love at first sight" but it doesn't mean you need to get married right-a-way

Fourth, you should expect that after the honeymoon period, it will be rough sailing because you are now together on a 24-hour basis and period of adjustment with someone like your partner you've known for not so long (say less than 1 to 5 years of knowing) is somtimes irritating.

The only thing that will assure that you will not separate is child or children and above-all, both of you must be God-fearing (real and not plastic)

more tips next time....

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

Greentea, not sure what to tell you. It's a personal decision. (Or not, depending on your culture!)

As for me, I didn't "pursue" marriage, no one told me to get married... I happened to meet someone I fell in love with...he's Muslim, I'm not... went on to make cute babies... it'll be 20 years this year.

u noticed too?

suddenly they're sooooo quiet...

ok let's give them time to think and reflect on themselves on why they get married... maybe they're confused now... :D

If you believe, you will receive what you ask for in prayer

I needed someone to share the rent...bangalore is an expensive city!

I dream of a better tomorrow where Chickens can cross the Road without having their motives questioned - Unknown

I was married too young, thought I was in love DOH!!!!

Took a lot of growing up and life to teach me exactly what love is, found it now and aint letting it go!!!! :)

well we arnt motivating them enough to answer up...i think we should remind them of how much fun it is to be single...anyways this kitty is gonna go sit in the corner now.

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

stop wagging ur tail and let the married ladies and gents start talking... 'k?

:)

If you believe, you will receive what you ask for in prayer

hold on let me break the code...all i read in your topic was that your single and u want to know if you should date me and later get married and make cute babies.

Well u cant just spring out a question an a lonely single handsome smart man like me out of the blue i mean there are certain rules u need to apply first..but anyways since u asked so nicely should i pick u up at 8 pm tonight?

Ok well i too wanna know the views of MARRIED people in da house..out with it.

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

honestly, i was told to!!!!