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i woulk like to thank all of u who share me my feeling and who didnt like my post ..

and really i apprecaite that for all

but when u start ur day with a love better to start ur days with some bad word or to go out ur home to annoyed some one by mistake ..

good day to all of u ...

keep smile to be happy

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copper? pay you? for lying?...geezz brother, you will be benefiting for all of this and yet you want me to pay you?..you getting greedy eh, wait till mom scarlett return, be ready for serious spanking..:D

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Will you pay me???

personally? which one copper?...lol here brother, seeing you so frustrated with your predicament...:D

go and tell a lie to your boss, and continue your vacation..:P

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i am sorry,i cant be that easy to show it to all...and dont you think we should be talking these stuffs more personally????hhaha

And i guess its not the butt that is important...lol

lol copper, its really refreshing to see you this way...you did not show your butt last night..:D

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May be you should look at my post that said,"I AM BACK AND NOT HAPPY ABOUT IT"..It's true I missed QL,but too early to be back to work on some idiotic...#$%#%#$#^#^#&#&#*#*(take a wild guess)

Don't worry, people who lies don't have peace of mind. the burden will become heavier and heavier for them, every time they lie.

Judge not! that you be not judged!

I'm up to live my life and to forget about it... Hoping that my other friends are still trustful!

its a bit of breakfast bread and thanks for your lemonade..(^_^)

Hi copper.. sorry Im just used to a heavy breakfast.

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Come on buddy...we answered ur concern...and now we are busy hijacking...so guess u shud have a good day...and hope u sort out ur worries...and have a fabulous time...ahead...so what u upto today dude...?

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Well... Another thread hijacked...

Anyway, I found very interesting comments about my concern. Thank you all and have a good day.

Looks like the truth is jus starting to cme out is it...Jauntie, IOU...

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that I am not a good person and I lied that I do not care about my friends :D

Cheers!

I slob about at home, never bother to wash, don't go out, make hub get his own supper and moan all day about how I hate living here :P

Mornin everyone, looks like ppl are lieing to each others...now this is something xciting...good stuff...

Hey ya doin Copper...jauntie (now that one was one helluva description of an ideal today for u)...and hows things going...peeps...

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Good morning :o)

You are back in Doha?? Holiday all finished ... or you just couldn't bear to be away from us and have logged in from your fancy suite in some plush hotel on a far off exotic island??

That was very refreshing... like a cool lemonade

If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.

Hey I lied...We were not hijacking this thread...

You scared the big jesus outa me...then said,good morning!!!!okay,GOOD MORNING,but too much to digest early in the morning..lol

Good morning! we better talk about lies here, that's the original topic here, don't make it obvious were hijacking it again!

Judge not! that you be not judged!

"Do not judge and criticize others so that you may not be judged yourselves. For just as you judge others you will be judged, and in accordance with the measure you deal out to others, it will be dealt out again to you. Why do you stare from without at the very small particle in your brother’s eye but do not become aware of the timber in your own eye? You hypocrite, first get the beam of timber out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the tiny particle out of your brother’s eye." Matthew 7:1-3,5.

Good Morning to All!!

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YOu always make sure every thread is hijacked..haha..Look who is talking!!!

Good morning ksarat,mysti,jauntie,owen,GG...HEy you cant expect me to name all!!!!

Was really nice to meet you again last night - dhow trip seems years ago now!

I don't work here in Doha, no, but I DO tend to get up same time as hub around 6 a.m. Most mornings I go to the gym for an hour's run on the treadmill (can only cope with that if I have MP3 plugged into my ears with recordings from BBC Radio blaring at me to pass the time).

After that I order a pot of coffee and loll about around the pool and swim lots in between slurping the coffee, reading, listening to MP3 or writing letters to friends. By then it's lunchtime, so I go shopping and come home to do whatever needs doing there (and here).

Today I was supposed to meet up for coffee with a friend, but cancelled.

Hope that was all interesting for you lmao

How is YOUR day!!!!???

GG, Good morning! Sorry! this is not actually aratchhb thread, so I am lost too!

ksarat16, I better go to his thread before I got kick out for hijacking Oliv's thread.

Sorry Oliv!

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Sarat Good morning.....I was not taking any side.. I said that to him that day itself... that he is annoying us with his love threads...

lol..nothing better to think first thing in the mroning? Let me guess.. Hope yesterdya's outcome was positive?

Mysti-U r right...for a person like who wants some Love in the air...and who doesnt want to get annoyed by ppl in ur face early morning...Love is the best thing...good for u...u r a nice lady ( i guess so)...so u shudnt be too bothered with bad happenings in the face...u shud move on...

GG- Hey girl...how r u...(thanks though for takin my side) i was getting weak with a lovely lady (mysti)...anyways how u doing...what ur boss isnt in office...GG i thought about u the first thing today...u know why...?

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This guy aratchhb is annoying, I dont think many are interested in his emotions and feelings towards someone, everyday he come up with many thread talking some crap, that dont really make much sense. That’s what the blogs are for., he can start a blog of his own and write anything and everything, those who are interested can visit it and comment on it. Everyone has got a love life... why should some people post it in a Forum, unless he need an answer for some problem?

but what he posted this morning is just normal....nothing to get annoyed..thats what Ksarat was saying to stop with it...and not to start his usual crap.

You're right! but the reason I was looking for aratchhb is because as I open QL some nasty people has to be cruel first thing in the morning just like in the newspaper as you say front page is always bad news!

Cheers!

Judge not! that you be not judged!

I guess thats why i asked u whether u r lost...but anyways its already hijacked...so continue...by the way u at work...from what i remember of u i have never met u though...but i remember for a fact that u have got a fantastic family...and u r lovely girl in the family(mother i mean-have i got that right about u)...

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U know what u r quite right...it has to be only good things in the morning...even if u open the newspaper...u rather want to see the place for movies section in the paper and not the first page cos thats always bad news...or rather u start finding for some specials cos that makes u smile...

Everyone appreciate Arat...sure why not...the guy is in love for christ's sake...and he has got THAT girl that he wanted the MOST...good for him...even i m happy for him...its really good that he appreciates her and cares for her (like a call every15mins)...everyone isnt that lucky...and fabulous and gorgeous to see he is one of those lucky stars...

Even i really like to see some good romantic lovely dovey things, jus to see how can one find new ways and new lines to express love...but Mysti...its just that its about 0700hrs in the morning...u want something really exciting to pump-u-up...cos u r talking about 8 hrs of work and more...so jus that first couple of hours in the morning to wake u up...and then at about 0900hrs or 1000hrs Lovey messages are absolutely fine...cos by then u need something to relax and groove into the mood to...and what better than some LOVE IN THE AIR ey buddy?

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I thought this is aratchhb thread it's oliv's thread. Sorry! ksarat16 I am lost too!

Judge not! that you be not judged!

What I think is, we have all sort of different thread here, some people are romantic, some people are bitter, some people are rude and some people are cruel. I chooses to be in a romantic thread as much as possible but some people are too daring to drag you to answers questions you want to avoid but of course temptation is there so sometimes I find myself lost too! I don't wish to get involve with rude, sarcastic people so I never enter their sarcastic thread. As you can see most people in this thread appreciates aratchhb. and sometimes people needs to hear good words first thing in the morning rather than bad words from horrible people. Cheers!

What do you think?

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Hey beautiful girl, Jauntie good morning...good to see u last night...anyways naa i didnt take the bait...yet...but i m sure to take it once our LOVE GURU starts his threads...LOL...How u doing today...girl tell me this...what u doing up so early...(do u work)...

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Me and lost...i really really hope u have the ground below u so that u know from where u r talking...that comment was on a very light note champ...take it easy...

And second, i really dont expect anyone to start the day with bad words and stuff...

U know what Mystica...its not correct for someone to keep posting LOVEY DOVEY poems picked from somewhere else to express his love...

Thats the thing i really dont see the reason for...instead...what wud be really nice and get ur day pump-started is...an individual letting us know how he got his LOVE OF HIS LIFE and hows LIFE GOING AFTER FINDING HIS LOVE...his true experiences not some Love Poems which he hasnt written...

My dear Mystica...this place holds no good for poems and recitals...it really holds good as freinds if we all know how your Life is so beautiful with the person you LOVE...what do u think...

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I think you're lost!

Some people appreciates nice words first thing in the morning and hate those people who would post bad words first thing in the morning.

Judge not! that you be not judged!

you took the bait lol

Come on buddy, first up good morning to u...second, dont ask him for more poems and writing about Love...its tough to digest early in the morning champ...

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good morning to you! any more lovely poems for today?

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REAL FRIEND TEST ! This is GOOD..I expect it back too! I especially like the last Sentence!!!!!! A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest. A real friend opens Your Refrigerator and helps himself (and doesn't feel even the least bit Weird Shutting your 'beer/Pepsi drawer' with her foot!) A simple friend has never seen you cry A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.. A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names. A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book. A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party. A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean. A simple friend hates it when you call after they've gone to bed. A real friend asks you why you took so long to call. A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems. A real friend seeks to help you with your problems. A simple friend wonders about your romantic history. A real friend could blackmail you with

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Run for your lives, it's a................CAT FIGHT! Oh my Gawd and giddy aunt.

I don't go to mythical places with strange men.

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I know what you mean but some people they are disturb and wishes to change their life if possible so they just tell lies to make themselves feel better. As for example I know a girl and I met her in another country as a maid treat her as my own sister etc. back stabbed me and everything but I still forgive her, lucky for her to marry a foreigner. years ago we met here in Qatar she seems to be shocked to see me here. why? she's afraid that I may bumped to her friends and all this time she tell lies that she was a teacher and not a teacher aide. she started telling her friend negative about me? why? too scared of her own lies that the truth may come up. did she ever consider that why would I talk about her to her friend when I don't know them? It's good that she has now a life! but instead what she did is whoever she bumped to she'll bad mouth about me all the time although people don't know me. Strange people afraid of their own ghost!

Also most of the criminals lies end up like this

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I normally behave the same. I don't ask people about their lives. They speak about it if they want to. And neither I judge them.

But the image you have of someone is built on what they tell you. If the person lies you, then you appreciate a dream, a fiction.

Moreover if the person wishes to tell you more about her then why should she lie? If she speaks about very personal feelings, it is because she is confident in the other person. Then she should tell the truth, right?

Maybe some persons enjoy playing roles, just to know how far they can get, and this is very scary.

The thing is with friendship, I don't ask their private life so they don't need to lie to make themselves look good. unless they tell me so and I just listen and never give any criticism and no need to tell anybody about her, let her talk for herself, I am not interested to know their pass what important to me is the present and that they are for real.

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Friendship is based on truth. I cannot stand lies, and especially when people who tell they're my friends do so.

When you get to a certain level of friendship you share more and more things. She's even shared her "dark past". But I even doubt about that now.

And anyway, it's hiding the truth she will lose my friendship. Poor Pinocchio!

Paranoia is excessive anxiety or fear, often to the point of irrationality and delusion. you're quite right with that.

Some people also lie to protect themselves just what nouf had said like what I just encountered recently with this big liar, trolling including herself is her weapon to get other peoples attention. She even lose sleep chatting someone on the phone until early in the morning to feed her friend more lies about other people she don't really know. reasons? She has to convince herself she's better than anyone.

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the best thing you can do is to talk to your friend heart to heart and let her understand that you will accept her for what she really is. Maybe she is hiding something because she is afraid to loose you knowing her dark past if that is so... And if you are just friends I think you can accept the lies.. it is never too late to know the truth at least you can start a brand new friendship...

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Unfortunately, nothing is as easy as it seems.

Is your "friend" called Pinocchio?

You are all right about it. But it's not as easy as it seems...

We can sit here all day and tell u what we think and the possible thoughts ur friend might be having, but the fact is that ur never resolve the problem if u don't talk to her because only she can tell u the truth of what's going on with her. If u don't, u'll always be wondering "what if" and doubt is an ugly monster. So as everyone here suggested, just go talk to her, and if she is really does consider u a good and close friend then she'll open up and be honest.

Well u jus gotto take ur chance buddy...talk and solve the issue...all this talk that u r doing here...the amount of concern u have for her...pls show it towards her and i m sure sure that u wud be much happier when the issue gets resolved...champ...

Take care champ...

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flipw...

I'd like to think in such a way... Yes, this friend has done something to lose my trust. And her simple behaviour is enough to lose my trust.

How can you then know whether she is telling the truth or not. I'm not a spy, I don't want to send my friends to check if she's been telling me the truth.

Paranoia is excessive anxiety or fear, often to the point of irrationality and delusion.

My advice is ignore your worries and be happy until something bad happens; or did your friend already do something to lose your trust?

I easily understand that people lie one to each other. Who hasn't done it? We're all the same. But the point is that this is only true for some people you don't know that well, or for whom you don't have strong feelings.

What about if the person you've been creating tough links with has lied about his entire life ? Then you like a person who doesn't exist, you like a dream.

Anyway, nouf84 i agree with you when you tell it may be a mean to protect themselves. But when you get close, there is no more interest in erecting these barreers... Good friends are made to help each other. How can I help someone who is playing a role ???

don't know how to take your comment up, is it a compliment or an insult..:P (don't answer...:D)

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people lie for different reasons...

some ppl wna protect themsleves... sm to protect others... and sm well just do it for fun coz they can...

wat if ur friend is a spy... and their job entails that they MUST lie to ppl closest to them... u cant hold anything against them for that...

i personally believe that i have very high tolerance to ppl's bull crap... lie to me all u want.. thats ur choice.. but dont u dare try to make a fool out of me...thats when you cross a line... thats when i bring out my bat...

so yeh... just try not to take it personally.. be kind... for others are fighting a hard battle too.. u never know wats on their minds..

"He who reigns within himself and rules passions, desires, and fears is more than a king."

Oliv...Owen sure did give u starter...she is using her brains...not bad Owen...

Anyways dude...guess u gotto face ur fear and get rid of them...this is jus one shot at life u cant be living ur life on a QUESTION MARK...so ask the person...hey buddy lets sit over a coffee and talk bout all that been told and said...and then u decide bout continuing the relationship...

Guess u just have to sort things out dude...take it easy...and relieve urself from this tension...rather ask that person and give away the tension to her...or him...

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...they may have lived a 'lie' long before they became your closest friend... and having to keep it up is very, very hard I'm sure. So why don't you suggest that you 'percieve' there is another 'story' that they are not telling. Something that you feel they are 'leaving out'. Sometimes folks will only open up if they feel you've 'been there' too, or if you can broach the subject in a compassionate way, not a judgmental way (hard to do!). After all, who hasn't told lies.. a good place to start the conversation.

Angelwings

If the grass is greener on the other side, its sure the water bill is higher !

oliv...always trust your instincts...and if you feel that you need to talk to him/her about this, better do that the earliest time (communication is the major key)...

don't wait for it be that "big" that both of you will find difficulty to solve issues any longer. :)

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