How to initiate frirendship

to make a guy just your friend and have no s## is to marry him.

Why would I want to look at your ugliness?

You got more facial hair than the wolf of your avatar.

J/K

The Red Pope of Qatar Living

just be a bad azz and every one will like to be your friend.

JUST HAVE A LOOK AT ME :D

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Just be yourself... thats allw e want from you ... would not like to change you for better or worse

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

For your comments, I am kinda of confident that there are many guys who are ready for JUST friendship and nothing more. I always thought their is something in the way I talk, which make them feel that I am very caring, affectionate, etc...that’s what I am told. But the fact is that I really don’t make a conscious attempt to be nice with anyone. LOL I am just being myself.

Hey Kitkat

Ask him?

Why are you wearing your left shoe on your right foot?

Why are you wearing your right shoe on your left foot?

Does Iceberg melt faster than your freezer Ice cubes?

Is friendship measure with tulips or roses?

Keep your candor and be gentle, just tell him what you think and move on with it.

Maybe I need to hire you, One headshrinker from the Amazon jungle, to help you fix your severe "SSTUUDDDEERINNNG" and butterfly's.

Just keep to basics "Hello and Goodbye".

What is basic conversation?

1- Is it me? In trying to figure out Mrs. Jauntie British accent, while she chops her words?

2- Reading Mrs. Scarlette Texas stories and shopping adventures in Doha?

3- Reading all the posting on Gypsy search for the lost Ark of humanity and love?

Dammed I need my yellow, pink and blue pills today.....

The Red Pope of Qatar Living

your PROBLEM is that men like u when u talk 2 them!!

oh dear God babe,

my heart is bleeding for u ! hehehehe

babe,

in the back of thier minds, all men want to have a relationship with any available female..

so u have one of 2 options

a) make friends with a married guy

b) make friends with someone and tell him u r taken...!!!

http://hasous.spaces.live.com

"missiles, warships and nuclear weapons cannot establish security. Instead they destroy what peace and security build." Anwar Sadat

black prince..i'm a bit late on my reply...i'm cool with it..no worries..:)

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how many PMs did u get .... curious

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

Kitkat, Wishing you a happy hunt for a MALE friend.

so sweet of you ... now i will have to be on my top behaviour or santa will not bring my gift so generously donated by prince

hehehheheheh

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

TC................I'll put it on my Xmas shopping list

not yet waiting for some kind soul to donate

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

You mean you havent got an internet connection in your car............heathen

was on my way home now ifonly i could drive n surf on ql wont theat be nice

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

TC................ok didnt miss you............no wait a minute.......did miss you............my damn coffe machine packed up....where were you when I needed you...............off grinding yourself somewhere hey...........naughty boy told you about before.....grinding is no good for you

dont worrie,everything is allright.

:-D

i understand how you meant it.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

back

Now dont be shy tell me straight who all missed me

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

Owen, the last thing I ever intended was for anybody to think that two girls cant be freinds without being lesbians..........I was joking about you and SG fighting over TC..............no offence meant or intented to either you or SG

let them think.lol.as long as we both know the truth they can think whatever they want.

muaaahhh.

lol.

(dont worrie folks that was a frienship kiss,nothing more)lol

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

sigh..i really have to give up working so i can focus more on QL...sigh..i can't keep up with one single thread..lol...

SG...sure i want to make friendship with you (aren't we?):)...and why is it like that..whenever they would see two ladies being too close (as friends) some would think the "lesbian" thing?...:S

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Now girls.............TC cant be split in two.........now theres an idea two TCs........how has the world survived this long with only one

...want you make friendship with meeeee???hmmm???

;-)))

lol

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

can i but-in (comment for tcom)...SG and dont forget -- he is old...(hehehehe, pulling his leg, i know that he said that this word is ugly)

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I dont think any one has ever been censored for complementing

GTG catch u all later

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

cant say everything i want,will be censored here.lol.

;-)

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

i forgot to say THANKS

so silly of me

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

Keep it coming who told u to stop hehehhehehehhe

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

hmmm,so let me try:you are so nice,so sweet,so friendly,so kind,so charming,so funny,so helpful...enough?Or you need more?

LOL.

;-))

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

lol prince

laughter is the 2nd best medicine after a cuppa of gt hehehhehe

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

or well seasoned...tcom..you're always good to make me laugh..

Thats how i am we crave for compliments dont u

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

Just go up and give him a great big sexy kiss and tell him...........thats the last one he will ever get like that.........thats if you didnt blow his shoes off while doing it

i would call matured

old is such a ugly word

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

Iknew I was old for a reason...lmao...

Also..when you are my age, you can flirt and still get away with being just friends...

seeking for compliments???lol.but i agree,thats it.so easy and so good.

:-D

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

so tue so true words of wisdom

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

just be yourself...no one else..

Most my friends are guys..always have been..they don't play games(ok MOST don't) and usually won't stab you in the back like girls...Just talk to them as equals, not all pansy eyed and flirty and they should be just fine with you. They are going to make comments..all guys do..but they are just joking with you..but one thing you will have to realize is...when they joke like that, a little flirty..they are testing the waters to see how you react..you act interested, you are no longer just a friend...but date material. You laugh it off..and don't act insulted, and you'll be cool with them still.

was just giving you my POV .. its all good :)

@ canarybird .. you're on the dot .. if this post were to have been initiated by a guy things wud have turned out very differently so .. but thats the difference .. stuff like this happens not too often and since its a girl .. big big difference :P

life goes on ..

Just slap his azz whne he tries to make a move...

He will get the message...

You can't teach experience...

it will come next to you and u will not notice at all....

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pRaCtIcE mAKeS iT pErFEct!

bUt

nObOdYs pErFEct!

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"Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get."

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Just be yourself and act natrual the rest will follow through.... I have lots of wonderful girls as friends lol and as gypsy says they are all straight hehehheh

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

how did i miss this topic

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I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

Any excuse is a good excuse

I have lots of guy friends here that are just friends (Hell some of them are even straight) the trick is to not force it. I don't know how you met this person, but I've met most of my male friends through my other friends. We hang out in the group for awhile until he or I become comfortable to hang out anywhere. Don't even give him a call (nothing more then a text if there is something going on with mutual friends). Until you feel that there is no way either of you can misunderstand the others intentions.

"You don't have to like me for who I am but we'll see what you're made of by what you make of me." Ani Difranco

Good one with the explanation...we are just here to help you ladies Canary...anyways carry on your discussions...

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lol canarybird the reason we are doing this is bcoz real MEN dont come to sites and ask how to get a girl or how to start talking to a girl we just know it. Where as we like to help out the girls coz its really hard for them to talk to guys thats my explaination for my hanging tongue :p

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

LOl

don't turn the words around just read the comment she is looking for friendship with a guy and just reading the comments is amusing.

I think I should drop my hanky too when I'm out on the prowl. lol

Funny indeed...just checking on you mate...I ain't doing anything...cross my heart hope to DIE...LOL...And I did understand what you mentioned to TCOM in the morning and to Kitkat just now...I was jus kidding around buddy...

Alright then chief...take care and have a good time...cheers...

I'm sure you want some quiet time with FC baby...LOL

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You are so right

Well thats Girl Power for you, and the second thing, is the guys aren't with their tongues out drooling, they are showing the tongue to some of the ladies in here who think Men are only good for getting into the pants and nothing else...

That was indeed a good remark though, made me smile...but anyways this girl isn't looking for friendship here buddy, she is looking at friendship with a guy in Reality not Virtual Reality (QL)...

Alright Children, take care and have a blessed day all of you...

I'm off...

Cheers...

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darn it my zip was already down...*puts zip back up and sighs* and dude i wasnt into anyone's croch i was just giving an example of what kind of mistakes are forgivable sheesh no one reads anything i write anymore, and kitkat wants to be treated as one of the guys so thts exactly what i'd do with a guy friend..unless u do something else which we are not supposed to know about ksarat boy :D

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

Looking at all the comments and because a girl posted this thread, all the boys are spot on, with their tongues hanging out. Normally if a male had posoted this he would have been told to go to h****l as this is not a dating site.

Absolutely Amazing.

you are indeed the oldest one here !!!

Chubby, looks like I need glasses to look hard for real people. May be.

Darude, tried and tested for the eligiblity as a platonic friend. Do I owe a thank you now.

sigh.i forgot.please can you forgive me?

;-D

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

Ooooo...cho chweet...thanks girl for that tipper...You are a darling...I'm sure Smokey is already getting his pants ready ain't you naughty boy...

dude early in the morning you were onto TCOM's Croch, and now you are saying that you want to hang out with the lady and treat her like a guy...mmmm...sounds fishy dude...any preference change dude...

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I am testifying to that Kitkat, try smokey baby and ks16 for sure they will treat you the way you would like them to treat you ^(0)(0)^

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People are very inclined to set moral standards for others.

~Elizabeth Drew, The New Yorker, 16 February 1987

i thought we are still friends and now you want new friends you cheater :D

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the guys who are offering you a hand of friendship might be what you dont want.

"Anything which is shiny, bright and seductive in the advertisement is surely dark and sinister in real life. So beware."

and for guy offering friendship

"Be a Man and Do the Right Thing"

what do you mean tried and tested by some old members. oh i myself am alot old :?

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LOOOOLLL.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

so kitkat have u met me? u want to be treated like a guy? sure sure i'm good at that lets go hang out drink some beer and oggle at pretty girls...just dont fall in love with me i'm not into guyz :)

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

Christ girl, you almost scared me away...LOL...thanks for the tips regarding me to Kitkat...

Cheers...

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And KitKat another exception being Darude. Tried and tested by some old QL members.

your views seem to be blemished due to some weird experience i presume .. cos not all guys think that way .. a good number of them do and i am sure by now you would be able to spot the "players" .. guys joke about their thing? please .. you must have be hangin out with some really backward ppl here .. i mean such jokes do come in now n then but not all the time .. and ur descriptions and references are too stereotyped ..all ppl aint like that u know! guess you should also meet up with some real ppl :)

life goes on ..

my ship is sinking help!!!!!!!

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Ksarat16, I'll take your word for it. I did pi** you off. Relax. Just teasing you.

Kitkat, ofcourse, there are exceptions like Ksarat.

Girls enjoy more with guys.

An all girls gathering====>Fights

You might meet some cool guys on QL with whom you might hang out.

As per my gathering we have a no girls rule.

you seem to be in one sticky situation ..

being friends with a guy without him being interested in you as such and just for friendship sake .. well depends pretty much on the guys i guess .. i mean even if u did tell him ur not looking for anything more than being friends it still is upto him to decide whether or not hes gonna be falling for u! hmmmmm .. well with me .. i always keep a safe distance with women .. am friendly yes .. but not too much .. or get into many details and avoid makin them feel crowded or so .. just take it easy and thats about it .. some women even feel the opposite .. a guy being friendly is perceived to be flirtatious .. well .. depends on the ppl like i said :)

life goes on ..

You seriously have a lot many things going up in your head (*if you have one that is*)...you have no clue as to what are you writing off...

I accept that there are guys like that...but there aren't guys like that as well...

Come on girl, there are a lot many pimps in this world, does that mean every girl wants to get laid for $$$$$, no way right...in the same way...not every guy would sweet talk just to get in the girls Pants...

Very true what Swissmiss had just mentioned about the Trust and knowing that your friend is with another person, even if she is not still you know where you stop...

come on girl, I have already told you this I will tell it once again...get a life, make some friends, and you might have to change your views...trust me...you are talking to one...

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Anything which is shiny, bright and seductive in the advertisement is surely dark and sinister in real life. So beware.

See what I mean, thanks Ksarat for making it easy.

You are talking like an absolute kiddo...grow up get a life...

talk to you for a couple of weeks and then they like you...*are you an angel from the top*...please...girl...find some people who wouldn't take your number if you smile at them, but rather *Take you out*...

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really?me i also could sleep nude next to my best friend,in the same bed and nothing will happen.thats a cause of trusting and knowing the limits.because he knows i am engaged and will never cheat my sweetheart.

:-)

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

Swissgirl, I bet they take you to the bar for beer. You must be special.

KitKat, trust me girls are more fun. Boys joke revolve around their 'thing'. Someone slips on the road and it is funny to them. Seriously, guys will chat you up, be sweet and all. Anything to get in your pants.

Girls, both of you are talking as if no guy in the world can be friends...pls...get this crap out of your heads girls,trust me there are guys who don't bother much about gals except for little exposure (lol)...but on a serious note...trust me Maria.m, you seem to be having a big time problem with guys...get out and have some friends girl, don't sit back and keep telling, no guy wants to be just a friend, and all that...that is sheer crap...take my word on that...

And for you Kitkat, what makes you say that no guy would want to treat you as a friend...come on you just said it, you don't have any guy friends...o pls...step out into the market, I'm sure there are guys like us who actually don't bother to see more than what is shown, in the sense, if you want a guy to be your friend, just play cool with him and don't think of luring him, obviously he would fall for it...come on its guys and you are girls...

But a normal friendship, Kitkat trust me there are lot many good guys out there...infact you are getting this coaching from one right as you read this...LOL...

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Swiss you are right, if we know the limits its easy, but in most cases as time pass by the limits will diminish. Maybe its easy in that part of the world. But it’s really hard in conservative places like Qatar. If we smile at a guy, he will ask for your mobile number. How stupid!

i still have alot of space on my ship so its not problem all you can be my friend and we will float the ship together :D

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I wish there was someone who treat me as a friend and not as a GIRL LOL We can find friendship in our school days, we don’t bother if its a girl or a guy we just can have all sort of things with friends, but as we grow up we start keeping distance.

between the two genders in this part of world.

It will take some time for people to understand gender segregation and discrimination is not a good thing and this can lead to a fantasy world

In the university we had the rule that girls participation should be 30% in each game. In Qatar you would rarely see girls playing sports with guys.

disagree.i have many male friends.and all platonic.will not miss anyone of them.it works perfectly when each knows the limits.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

Platonic relationship, does it even exists. Not for long. One spark and Kaput !!!! it all goes down the drain.

I am not a bro, am a sis. I dont want them to treat me as a sis, because I cant tell many things to my bro, but I can tell everything to my friends.

you got it i hate you now wana be my friend :D

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"Why cant these guys just treat me as their male friend"

So you wanna be treated like a Bro?

Finally someone of the species is daring enough to leave the cocoon.

charansoi11, if he picks up the pants, that means he's not interested in sex ;D

or maybe

That’s what I meant, I don’t want him to be interested in me. I just him as my friend, let him go behind any girl I don’t care. A friend with whom I can talk anything and everything, the same way I talk to my girl friends.

lol darude, i was about to advice the same (give them some kitkat)..

kidding aside, just be yourself kitkat, i mean it reflect on you if you are genuinely seeking friendship...try a small conversation to any decent place you hang out...try some smart pick up lines to start a conversation...(not pick up-pick up per se ok..:P)

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My problem is whenever I talk to someone, after few days they all end up saying that they like me...that really sux. Why cant these guys just treat me as their male friend LOL.

Darude I dont show my skills to my friends that’s for my enemies.

Just drop your pants and see if he pick it up ;)

Just drop your hanky and see if he pick it up ;)

thats easy.just talk with him about your intrests,your hobbies,maybe ask for some advices and be intrested to talk about his intrests too.go out with him and his friends,have fun and be just yourself.i do the same and it works perfectly.

good luck.

:-)

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

Once a girl asked me for some advice about a guy and she said that the guy is not interested in her. I told her to show some cleavage and legs and the guy will surely be interested in her.

How can you expect a guy to be interested in someone if he cannot see her and she is all covered up

all you need is to hide ur fighting skills rest is ok. and ask him simply for friendship nothing much. try giving him kitkat daily and he will get used to it FROM YOU.

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You could try the australian tact: 'do yer wanna root?'

or in manchester: 'fancy a shag?'

you dont' really have to be interested in them just to shag them... esp if you are pissed out of your tree.