Hey Guys
I need help. Today I received an e-mail from a friend in another country. Included in that was an e-mail from someone that she knew I knew. She had answered an ad on another website and he had responded to her. Now this man professes to love me, wants me to marry him and move to his country. This has hurt me alot as it was hard to believe that he would do something like this. Now I put it out there for you to help me. He lives and works here in Doha, but is from another country. There are some of you here that might know him or have heard of him. I don't want to go in to all that now, but would love to know what to do? I know that this isn't a dating or relationship site, but I am so hurt that I thought I would put it out there to you guys for advice.
are you and seal talking about the same guy?
with that last post. I think you already have.
You can't teach experience...
I decided not to call names to my friend.. Figured to let bygones, be bygones.
Well he has now p..... me off. He has started posting here under another name and trying to make all of us feel sorry for him because he has no "woman", no relgion, etc. So should I call him out now ladies and gentleman.............?
Some are allowed to be polygamous others not lol
miss.lillywhite better confront him and show him your proof of what he has been doing...some guys really are not contented with one woman, some are polygamous...lol
The decision is yours after your conversation with him if you will still give him another chance or totally let go.
Next time dont trust anyone with all your heart coz u will really get hurt!
sorry miss.lillywhite NO Comments. Is your life and you choose your destiny not us tellling you what to do.
Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand
fooled but I don't think it is you are Smoke, but then I dont have your numbers/e-mail...either
oh darude getting all kinky now lol
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
just make sure its not my number and my name.
rest is ok if its smoke get him and hang him upside down. and get you whip and lash him :D
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Thanks for all the advice.
And you 2 Canary.
I am going to tell him what I know and see what lies he tells.
He can't creep out of this one,
I have the e-mail he sent her with his name and phone number
am thinking of leaving that field now loving animals.
and am plannning to start loving human, females i mean now.
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Darude it stopped being a secret when you started professing ur love for animals...i mean that in a good way u know :p
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
lady you dont have to reveal my secrets on QL :)
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Yes I did lol.
Never mind him, he is just nice and harmless lol.
lol canarybirdie i think u posted in the wrong topic.
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
its just like pepsi ye dil mangay more more more more :D
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darude are u cheating on ur donkey now...men i tell u, never satisfied!
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
On Fridays I have gone to the corniche alone, but unlucky for me no man got out of his car and spoke to me lol.
and how am i suppose to text you. for sure i need a number.
ah just kidding :D
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Talking about leaving is easier than doing it,,, Canary Bird is with me on that one I bet, Besides why would you want my cell............
AH JUST LEAVE HIM
and come to me
pm me ur cell number
and i will text you :D
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I have gone through this and it is just a mess, his family will always take his part, as you know blood is thicker than water. Luckily for me there were no kids involved but I cut my losses and got out, and I had to start all over again.
It is really not worth the heartbreak, it is up to you if you name him or not, just be sure of your facts otherwise you might make a grave mistake.
Do it as smoke suggested then you will have facts to put on the table.
Right now because I am mad and hurt all I want is for him to hurt too. When I get over being mad I will think differently. I want to write his name all of this page,,i want to send his boss a letter...i want everyone to know how much he has hurt me with his words. And you know what is funny, at the end of the email to my friend he said that he expected the truth from everyone because he is truthful.
Bahhhhhhhhhhhhh
I am afraid in my heart that you are right. One of the other QL'ers thinks that I should name him here.
Guitly as charged!
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
I could be naive, but I don't think so...the word could be gullible because I beleived what he told me with out doubt. Lust no..,..
If you already know that this is him, what is going through your mind right now? What will you do? Love is not the answer I'm afraid.
Marrying a foreigner and going with that person to their country will already be difficult for you because you will be in a new culture with different customs and if a situation arises with another women you will be on your own.
I am speaking from experience, if you are not working and don't have any finances nor a job you will find yourself in difficulty not to mention the heartbreak and the shattered dreams. My personal opinion is you really have to clear this up before you think of proceeding with this man it may be just something harmless although if he has circulated his telephone number I doubt it is
you are so bad, you little tail is just twitching for fun isnt it.
lol if he is reading this he will know whats coming for him...if he's not even better...oh i like this so much..the clam before the storm hehe
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
It appears to me that you are being extremely naive.
How can 1 love another person without knowing that person?
Isnt love being mistaken by lust here?
see the important thing here is for HIM to know what he is doing...wrong actions have consequences, u know its him fine, if thats enough for u to confront him then do so. but i still feel u should wait and let ur friend reply to him so u have enough proof to put on the table.
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
his name should come out, so everyone can know what a scum bag he is!!! If he is so worried about people finding out who he is, he shouldnt have been doing something wrong in the first place!
Are you sure this is even his real name? He might be afraid of bad things being said about this name because he took it from someone else to cover his own butt!
tra la la
guys rock. I knew if I posted here that I would get help. I think I will get her to send him another e-mail and see what happens....
He even comes on here so could even be reading this.
OOPS
You are so right. But because he signed it with his name and phone number I already know it is him. Now I have to think exactly what to say to the two timer. But then Smoke you think I should have her play this little game. He is really afraid of his name coming out there in Doha and everyone knows what he has done.
Smoke is right, have your friend talk to him to make sure it really is him and catch him in the act so he cannot deny anything.
Someone could be messing with him and using his contact information, so better safe than sorry!
tra la la
I'm sorry you are going thorugh this Lilly, it is not easy.
My advice is to wait and see what he has to say for himself. As hard as it might be, if he tries to lie his way out of it, you need to cut him loose. It will hurt a lot, but this man cannot be trusted. Could you imagine marrying him and him be a role model for your children??
Once a liar, always a liar. You should not be treated this way!
tra la la
wait dont be in a haste now...whats the fun in this...i say tell ur friend to reply to this guy so u will have enough proof later to confront him. coz u already know its him, so i say let things play out for a while and then u can ask him about his two timing-ness. Just be glad u came to know about this before things got serious.
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
ngourlay is being diplomatic again he posts some things and forgets he is treading on other peoples toes.
miss.lillywhite
I would clear this up with him, the internet is a jungle and perhaps it is not true. If you find it is true then your future with this person may not be what you are looking for, because if he is still searching on the net then his love for you is probably not so strong.
I dolove him...and yes there will be questions but all of you know how easy it is to not tell the truth when you are not looking the person in the face. I am not in Doha
And there is a lot of advise given here on QL and that is why I posted here. I wanted different approaches..etc
There will be a call to Doha today. I know it is him because he signed his name and even gave her his phone number. He had no idea she knew me
why isnt QL a good place to ask for advice? we have some wise people here who are more then willing to help out in matters of the heart, liver, kidney our motto is "whatever the problem we have the solution" :)
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
If it's true, he's no good for you. However, QL isn't the best place to ask for advice. What do your friends think you should do, and what do you think?
--nigel
Have you asked him bout this website and if it really is him?
IF it is him, have you asked him why he would post that if he truly loved you?
I'd start asking if I were you!
tra la la
well whats the problem either you love him too or u dont...
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot