dont you just hate men like these?
Losing Myself
was like any other average ninth grader. I was active in sports, had my circle of friends and got good grades. Until the day I was introduced to him. There was something in his eyes that attracted me. Somehow I thought that he needed me just as much as I needed to be loved. After flirting for months, we finally became a couple. We were together every single moment from that day on. Slowly, day by day, my family and friends saw me changing. I was in love.After about two months, however, he started to try to control me and even raise his voice at me. I told myself it was okay because he really did love me. Or so I thought. The first time he ever hurt me, we were skiing with friends and had lost each other on the slopes. When he found me, he said it was my fault. He proceeded to push me and call me nasty names while people just stared at us. I ran into the bathroom with my best friend and cried my eyes out. The next thing I knew, he was in the bathroom hugging me, overflowing with kisses and saying how sorry he was. So I forgave him and put that day in the back of my mind.
Things did not go back to normal, though. He became possessive and jealous. He made rules stating I could no longer wear my hair down, wear shorts in the summertime or have any sign of another boy in my room. If another boy even glanced at me in school, he would yell at me. My grades dropped, I lost my ambition for sports, I started losing my friends, and my family became my worst enemy. I didn’t want to listen to what they thought about my relationship or how much I had changed. I cried every single night because of the way I was beginning to feel about myself. He would yell at me or blame me for everything. A couple of times, I tried hurting myself because I felt I wasn’t good enough for him and that there wasn’t any other reason to be alive. I tried to justify his actions by believing they showed how much he cared about me. As a ninth grader, it made me feel important to be in love and have a steady boyfriend.
My parents tried taking me to counseling and talked to all my teachers about my relationship. I started skipping school. The violence escalated. He tried to choke me on several occasions, and once he tried to break my arm because his brother looked at me in my swimsuit. I felt hopeless and depressed. He had so much control over my mind that I could not accept anyone else’s opinion of him. I told myself that they just didn’t understand how much he loved me. He only did what he did because he cared.The physical abuse continued to get worse. He forced me to do sexual things with him. He also hit, choked and pushed me around. He tried drowning me once. Fortunately, I fell on some rocks before he had the chance to get me under the water. He also cut my wrists because he was in the dumps. This went on for nine months.Finally, my parents took me on a trip for a week. While I was on vacation, he cheated on me, and I built up enough courage to break up with him. One night, I lay in bed and thought of everything he had done to me. It was clear what I had to do.I spent the last two weeks of summer break trying to get my old friends back before returning to school. When I went back to school, he was in my gym class. I was nice to him because I still feared him. When I got up the nerve to tell him that it was over for good, he went psycho, pushed me to the ground and kicked me several times. Nobody came to help me. The next day, I discovered an eight inch bruise on my leg.It took me three days to show the bruise to my parents. To my surprise, after everything I had put them through, they helped me. They took me straight to the police station to file charges. I wanted to just let it go, but I was also determined that this should not and would not happen to anyone he “loved” in the future. At home, I continued to receive threatening phone calls from him saying that he was going to kill me. He told my parents that he would hurt me if he got the chance.My court experience took over a year and was horribly painful. I found out that he had a violent past and that it wasn’t the first time that he had abuse charges brought against him. I was never notified about the final court hearing, so it happened without me and, to my knowledge, nothing severe happened to him. The justice system let me down, but I chose to go on with my life.I am very lucky to be where I am today. I am nineteen years old, and I have grown and healed a lot. It took me over three years to tell my parents everything that he did to me. My parents and I are very close now. The healing process may continue for years to come, but I deal with my pain by sharing my story with other young teens, hoping to help prevent this from happening to anybody else. I do not wake up every day hating him. I feel bad for him, and I know he needs help, wherever he is. I have learned instead to focus on living my life to the fullest and cherishing the people I truly love.
(Chicken Soup for the Soul)
Well this story is not about love for sure :). A person who loves cant hurt his/her beloved for sure. Not physically only; also emotionally.
Everyman dies; but not every men really lives.
You should have been gazing into his eyes, rather than looking at the front door..
Gypsy..
Nagging - up to a point - can also mean that you are keen on the relationship developing further, with certain adjustments..
And no matter how IRATE I became, I would either go to the other room, or stay in the bathroom and take a long bath or put on the headphones and listen to music.
ERGO...I stop talking.
That proves to be VERY effective coz HE WOULD BE SOOO STUPID not to know I don't wanna listen and I'm already PISSED OFF.
It's futile to discuss anything when one is UPSET or EMOTIONAL...
lol brutus... anything for an excuse huh.... typical... pfft.... lol
MJ.. probably partly they are women.. (hhhmmm.... you think)
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
You can't teach experience...
i know a man who nags.. can introduce him for interview (what makes him nag?).. :D
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see brutus, azi agrees that men can be such naggers too...
...there you are mom scarlett.. how you been?
exactly mom... but the question now would be, how would you know/detect "those few that aren't...that spoil it for the rest of the gender" .. should they/ladies test the water first?
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Azi how about if you are really pissed at him.. how do you discussed in a low tone and relaxed manner?? (hhhmm... just asking...)
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
I find if a guy does bring out the nag in me, that's usually a sign there's something wrong with the relationship. I'm not much of a nag and I don't like to do it.
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Quite surpising though...
I openly tolerates it for a hile coz i feel he cares that's why he's like that. But do it, more often than necessary would make me jump out of my skin...grrrr
I DON'T NAG...i'd rather discuss things in a low tone and WHEN we're both relaxed....
lol brutus....
That's the girl Scarlett. Good for you.. (HHHmmmm.... unless after he said sorry again for the nth time they are back together)
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
most men are very nice...its those few that aren't, that spoil it for the rest of the gender!!! Unfortunately there are those that use people and friendships and never learn from it...
Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.
Naahhh... MJ.... seen and heard a lot of women whether they are a girlfriend or wife or whatever. Wajid girgir..
(hhhmm... still thinking what is the cause of it) hehehehe....
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
dated a guy that used emotional abuse instead of physical..after a year of worrying that I wasn't treating him the right way (never WAS the right way for him! so I was always apologizing) the straw that broke the camel's back was sitting in a restaurant and looking towards the front door...I then got accused of being interested in someone else..because..get this...my pupils dilated and contracted!!! Heck...I was looking at the front door and WINDOW and it was noon!! I got up from the table, told him to find a psychiatrist and go to heck and walked out..never looked back.
Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.
lol brutus... men can be naggers too you know..i know a few men who are.. ;)
i don't nag.. i just explain/discuss a lot.. :D
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Same here.. Brit.. nagging women.. *&*^&%&*^*&$%&^$&*.....
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
am afraid to answer you FS...else we might end up this thread again to another religious bashing thread lol... ...you know how some are creative to turn a simple comment into religious..ooopsss.. :D
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hey brutus.. im cool..
who invented them? LOL
Hey MJ.. are you cool?? wazzuupp??
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
You can't teach experience...
hate men in general except for men in my family, few male friends i have.. other than them.. hate them..
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me not guilty of nagging.. lol
We also hate women who nag all the time....
yeah brit, we hate women like that as well...
There is a hidden statistic that has gone under the radar for far too long. It is generally assumed that the perpetrators of domestic violence are husbands or boyfriends and the victims their wives or girlfriends. Very few people know that in just under half of all incidents of violence within the home, the victim is actually the man. 'Husband beating' as it has become known is a growing phenomenon that has received almost nothing in the way of media attention or recognition from either charities or government bodies.
Incidents of husband beating are very rarely reported as men tend to feel ashamed of themselves for having allowed a girl to kick their arse - their manhood compromised somewhat. Husband beating is also very difficult to detect as women are not very strong and as a rule tend not to leave visible bruises.
http://www.dontpaniconline.com/magazine/misogyny/husband-beating
Who will speak out for these men? Don't you hate women like these ?
send some bacon here for us MP...
Shucks, I wish I could join ya Mr. Paul...:(
Meanie. Tantalizing our taste buds.
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True, Im sure they like it too :P
I think with men, emotional abuse is more prevalent. Although I have heard of a few physical ones...but they dont go down well with the macho men of this world.
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I have plenty at home....
And cold beer !
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there are men who are abused by women also..
Horrible..hard to read.but it happnes
mY nEPAL
mY pRIDE
2 eggs (overeasy-no salt), a hamburger bun and a tall glass of orange juice...
That's it...a nap and off to gym at 3pm....
lol... let's see here, i got some cho-chip cookies, granola bars, fruit biscuits, tuna omelet, and orange juice... :)
and would end in a splatter...whehehehe
yummy.... could you toss some our way please? :)
hotdogs, eggs and hanburger buns.
i think i'm gonna boil an egg and drink some orange juice...that's it .
:-)
like i said, im chillin already....
what ye havin for lunch Azi?
With all the male bashing going on, which doesn't bother me one bit as I can take a joke, like I said, I though I'd dish a little back.
Since MJ started many of these threads, plus contributed with many posts, plus MJ is easy to rhyme with, this makes her name is a LEGIMATE target!
If you are the instigator of jokes directed at men, be prepared to be the butt of jokes in reply. That's not personal, it's common sense.
My friends, please do not feel you need to defend my actions, rather, just tell the silly girl to chill out!
:)
Coz my stomach is complaining now...
might as well find any fruit in my fridge...uggh
ksa, i do tolerate humor coz i like to smile a lot.. but when it gets personal, it's a different thing... but like i say, im cool... i dont want to change my bright and cheery attitude today, and everyday i like it to stay that way... panda, put that bazooka back where it came from ok?
"....knowing QT that bugger has a different and pathetic way of Jokes..."
I'm back in Doha the end of this month mate, ...and I'll be kicking yer ass from Ramada all the way back to Wakra!!!
:S
...and FYI, I am cuddly! If not anything else!
Thanks Mr Paul! :)
everyone,...im cool.... but MP you can skip the kiss and make up part..
Jamy Bazooka is still with me in case....:)
PANDA
WTF is going on in here...hey Mr Paul I told you to keep a watch on the kids, and this is where it ends up!!! :P
How pathetic...
And MJ, well to say the least girl, humour is not given to you when you want, its given when you least expect it!, but yes if things get personal it isnt called Humour anymore, but knowing QT that bugger has a different and pathetic way of Jokes...so yes he wasnt being personal...so take it easy and chillax will ya girl...!!! Dont make me come out there and smack that azz of yours girl!!! LOL!
QT, im cool..
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hey MJ .. Cool it
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well you know azi, he can keep his dry sense of humor to himself coz i have never done anything wrong to him or to anybody else here for that matter...
...of which I found quite lively and funny, I took it open myself to just dish a little back!
No harm intended and definately no nastiness intended!
I was joking and given the circumstances I believe it should have been viewed in light spirits!
However, given your stark response, I would firstly like to fully apologise for any offence that may have been caused on my side.
Secondly, the phrase, "...if you can't take it, don't dish it!" comes to mind.
:P
God forbid, I'm soooo glad I don't live in Doha anymore, you know what they say about a woman scorned!
Im cool now MP...
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and you know brits have a dry sense of humour....not you Mr. P...you know I love your jokes...:-P
he started it panda! not me....
Jamy! what happen here?!
PANDA
well labda, he started it!
"I'll give you a destructive ending if you want one!" LOL mjamille.
QT you naughty naughty boy! Yes get him mjamille!!!
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i wish to thank labda, at this point...
MP, you call that cuddly?
i didn't MP,.. just dont like people making nasty comments about me, when they dont have a single clue about who i am at all... im cool,,
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:P
up to MJamille28 now...
If you'd take MY WORD for it, QT is adorable in person,
funny and a gentleman...
he's harmless...cute and cuddly as a stuffed teddy bear toy...
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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM
yeah well labda, he better be joking!
hey scroll down on the very bottom of the thread QT! (chicken soup for the soul).. how dare you! i'll give you a destructive ending if you want one!
mjamille Im sure he's only joking hun...:)
QT now see what you've done.
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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM
MP, who's side are you on bro? lol
Absolutely NOT, I like mjamille.
Now then, back away from the poem....(which was pretty good btw, who'd you steal it from?)
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QT, you better not be talking about this MJ or you're gonna get it! you dont even know the mistakes in my life, so you better not be talking about me..
QT...
and the men keep paying to this day??
I may be blonde but I am wise
smile lots laugh more
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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM
There was a young lady called MJ!
who'd decided that good men should pay!
For mistakes in her life, that made her no wife!
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...erm, guys help me out here, I'm struggling with the end of this poem. It's a bit early for me!
:)
ei, Arien.... maybe they're dumb... but not me!
Mj Rizkz meant .. they r managing dumbs LOL
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yeah rizks....
Dumb Management !!!
lol Rizks,...there is a cam in front of me... they should have put it in an angle where they can see my computer screen.. oh well, it's their problem, not mine...
I will advice ur boss to fix a CAM in ur Seat n C wat u DO-ing in Office !!! LoL
lol da rude....he can't stop me from QL-ing!
oh you better go and get back when your boss leaves next time
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Giving us men a bad rep.
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oh shoot... my boss just came in the office (back from his Vienna vacation),..wonder if it's the end of my QL-ing days?? Nah!!!
Janey I agree with u, but dont worry your love will come along :), u r a wonderful person, u will get what u deserve.
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(Lebanon A piece of Heaven on Earth)
Heaven is good.. but it doesn't always last that long does it? :(
Don't talk to me about leaving.. someone dear to me is leaving today. Boo! :(
Janey and Labda,
Janey yes thats true, but it can be a piece of heaven too. U see if we keep it in mind that "what if this person leaves" and at the same time love them enough to keep them stay, we will be ready for anything. It would hurt a little if the person left, but at the same time we will be ready to move on. :)
Labda thank u doll :D
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you mean like a black hole janey?? ;)
Love sucks the life out of us if we let it. ;)
let's just say, everything happens for a reason...
I agree with you Thexonic. We must have balance in our lives.
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I can drag them to a shelter. But I cannot make them stay.
I can take them to the cop station. But I cannot force them to press charges.
I can set up a meet with a counsellor. But I cannot force them to talk.
And Mis-Cat my friends know that my door is always ALWAYS open. They have camped at my place many a time.
Sometimes Mic-Cat we can do all we can. And they will still push us away. At the end of the day we can only do so much.
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hey MJ.. come on. Its not just a claim.
Found some 16 years back..6years of affair.. got married .. 11 years now..blessed with a handsome boy too. no regrets, no beetings,bitings , hurts..quite happy
I agree with thexo.. there should be sort of balance.. lil bit of adjustments from both end.. and it goes on.
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Sadly it is an unfortunate truth, that most women will and especially when your younger as you don't won't to tell anyone that you've made a mistake, I was fortunate enough that I was only in this situation for 6 months and if it weren't for the fact that we lived with his parents, I could have been in it for a lot longer...
"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.
true...because physical scars do heal over time, but wounds of the heart, takes more time to heal, sometimes it just doesn't heal at all....
These types of relationships seem to occur on such a regular basis, that maybe this story should be published in the hand book of every girl before she enters high school. Just to warn of the pitfalls of worse case scenarios if nothing else.. Of course this isn't a one off story like this men/guys have been mistreating their female partners for eons, but don't cloud the sky for others as well, there are many men/guys out there in the world to whom this type of thing would simply seem abhorent, and disgusting. Choose carefully and don't be in any hurry to settle on one particular person, is all I can add, sometimes the choices we make in haste aren't the way we'd like to them to turn out, and hindsight is a great education for all to observe.
and it takes LONGER to GET OVER IT...sometimes makes a person so CYNICAL about other people and the RELATIONSHIP itself that it's harder for them to trust again.
Worst is, they may fall for the same trap again....
Arien,...good to know there are still good guys like you.... better go find one before they run out. :)
In my opinion love is full of shyt... no offence to anyone, I lost myself too. Alot of People get too desperate for one another and in fear of loosing they try to control each other... this is when they think from the heart instead of using their brain and senses. A relationship always fails when there 100% brain or 100% of heart is involved. A relationship needs balance 50% heart and 50% mind involved. Balanced relationships never fail.
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Lol Labda .. I do read the same way you described , when its a long post . :)
Hmm have heard many similar stories...feel bad for them..but lets not generalize.. there are gud guys too .. like me LOL
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it's true,.. psychological abuse hurts more than the physical abuse...
Or your like me and you hide it, so no one knows.
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The question is and it's one that I propose to all people who know someone in this situation,
"fine you help them get medical treatment if they need it, you are there for them if they need someone to talk too, but at the end of the day you do nothing to stop them from returning to the person. HAve you called the police have you offered to shelter them from this person, get them the help that they really need?"
You see getting away is the hardest part and in most cases unless (as in my case) somebody calls the proper authorities on their behalf, they won't do it. You have to understand there is not only physical abuse but there is psychological abuse also, they tell you that no one else cares for you the way they do and if nobody really steps up and shows you that they do by really helping you then again you believe them....
"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.
I realised after I was taken away I could be a victim for the rest of my life or I could use it to better myself, I chose the latter, it's part of the reason why I don't let what people think of me bother me anymore If people like me, they like me if they don't, they don't, I am my own person my mind and body are my own no one else will ever take that from me.....
"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.
it disgusts me to hear that.
my little girl is almost 5 months old - i'd like to think this sort of behavior will be a thing of the past in canada when she is older, but i'm sure it won't be.
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Of course they are Labda, but it's not as easy as it seems to leave these guys.
Brit, I would say it's played a part yes, how could it not?
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i'd say, it has made them stronger now...
Withnail I know of parts of Canada where it's still not a big deal.
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Gypsy, am I judging by having an opinion? Sorry but this is my opinion. I have never been in this position (I have seen the violent tendencies in some of the guys Iv had an interest in and backed away). But I have friends and family members who have been in it. And when they are in it, they are not in it alone. It causes the people around them, the people who love them a lot of anguish as well. I am not saying they deserve it. I am saying I do not understand why after the first punch, slap, whatever or the second, atleast the third a woman would not walk out.
Believe me, I have held many a friend who cried day after day, Iv seen the bruises and the chipped teeth. Iv taken a friend to be treated at the hospital after she'd miscarried from being beaten by her husband...I have been there for my family and friends who have gone through this. I have also begged these women to leave these men. And they never do. It is a cycle and it destroys not only the victims life but those of their loved ones around them.
Forgive me for thinking these women are entitled to a better life with a man who loves them.
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So would you say that those "experiences" have defined the way you percieve men now or your outlook on life ?
someonenew... i thought "love is a battlefield"??
turns out the british millionaire who was found dead with his family in their burned down house is the one who killed everyone.
spain has a real problem with spousal abuse, and it wasn't so long ago that smacking your wife around wasn't such a big deal in canada.
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Well all I can say is that love truly is blind and that unless ur in thse shoes u never know what u'll do.
I dream of a better tomorrow where Chickens can cross the Road without having their motives questioned - Unknown
statistics are true... this morning in the news i was watching, this woman was strangled and beaten to death by the husband,..what's worse, the son apparently helped his father... :(
then dont read it...
Well and statistics show that the vast majority of women who are murdered are murdered by their significant others.
Mine never threatened to kill me thank god, but he did convince me that I was nothing without him and that I'd be nothing without him.
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For the most part and from my experience, all people want to do to help is tell you to leave him, what they don't realise is is not that easy in my situation he threatened that if i left him he would take the one thing I valued most and that was my life and given what he had already done to me you have no choice to believe that they will...
"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.
seriously.. who has d patience to read it till d end.. ???
ah you kiddo
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Yup, but it took over 4 years. You really shouldn't judge women who get into these situations, there's a lot of reasons it happens.
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sounds like we walked a similar path though mine was at 16 and we weren't engaged just lived together, ended when his parents called the cops on him...
"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.
6 years of this kind of madness? Well, I suppose you have come into your own now. Good for you.
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Yup. Was with him from 17 until 23.
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Gypsy....seriously??!
Darude/rizks just do as I do...first two lines in the beginning, scan the middle and then last paragraph. But only because I have a condition. :P...you guys have no excuse.
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lol Rizks.....
DaRuDe ........................
One person in QL has time to read all tat love story .... n tat is KSA .....LoL
Man he really types so much, guess no prob. 4 him to read either ......LoL
yerright labda,... hate the guy... girl is just grrr....
I was engaged to a guy much like this at 19.
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LOL, Im just trying to think what I was doing at 19. Ah yes, devising ways to avoid my lectures.
Its really hard for me to feel any sympathy for women like this. Sorry, I dont think Im insensitive. I just believe we cause a lot of our own drama all in the name of love.
But yes, dude should be shot.
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it was one of the many stories from Chicken soup for the soul... morning azi...
You could have posted the source too...just a thought, dear...
Good morning...