Can't Help Falling
By angel_eyes •
"Wise man says, only fools rush in
but I Can't Help Falling Inlove With YOU"
As the song says: you cannot control yourself when it comes to love!
But the thing is what if you found your love and you are committed already or say engaged to be married and all of a sudden your heart find another love... What will you do?? Is it possible??
what kind of love u got and what his feeling about you but why u got love if u already engaged ,
u have to keep you heart close to ur old love better than change that every time u find someone be good with you,
keep in touch with that but dont hurt u self.
I'm a big fan of the belief that every relationship is just 8 words from being over. "I don't want to be with you anymore" ends any commitment, even legally binding ones.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
given this situation, I always mention this to a friend ..."mind over heart" :)
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Are you asking me? if so! my love is for real as he is to me and I never felt empty, since I've been with my love! he and our kids are everything to me! with love there's too many doubt and questions! with me there's no doubt and no more questions to make! within 12 years? you bet everything is settled and over with all the trials!
Judge not! that you be not judged!
u have to ask ur heart and ur feelings about that love and what kind of love u got .
and keep asking about that love is it bocz of the treating of ur loneliness or bocz of that happeness that u find it with that new love and in the end let ur heart decide for what u want for ur future and ur welfare.
to be trust say the truth
Some people are lucky to find their love ones! who love them equally and I think you can feel it yourself if he/she's the right person for you but some people are just unlucky so they keep searching! I am just a lucky one to find my love one! hmmm!
Judge not! that you be not judged!
I'd pray before making any final decision in life all the while knowing that God has the best in mind for me...and rest assured I'd be glad that I would not regret my decision.
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"Archangel - Not an Arab, not a Muslim, but in every way a daughter of the Arab land."
You should not be in a committed relationship if your heart can easily be lead astray. If you find yourself having a crush on anther channel those feelings towards your loved one, and concentrate on the relationship.
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all good points.
both of you just have a "knowing" when you meet, but still we go into relationships thinking 'this is the one!' and further down the line you get dropped, or you drop your partner. it hurts badly at the time but one day when you look back you realise that it was just part of your growth process. you can take the experience and let it make you bitter, or you can take the exper and allow it to 'grow' you. look at it like its fertiliser for the soul (or chicken soup). one day the 'right one' will come along (he/she has been thru his/her little hell too) and it will be so totally natural, and your lives somehow fit into place with little or no effort.
should you make a commitment to each other, then find yourself falling in love with someone else, then was he/she really the right one? maybe self-doubt(or low self-esteem++) has crept in and you have allowed your eyes to wander a bit, and going off in the other direction is actually a mistake.
the secret is get to know yourself again (make that list of what you really want), learn to be on your own, learn to like yourself again, build up your personal power, work on your baggage (drop it!), find your self-esteem and self-respect again - and then, and only then, will he/she magically appear in your life, without his/her own baggage. sounds like fairy story stuff, but how many of us actually do this? not many.. and we wonder why we are continuously finding ourselves in the wrong relationship.
when i say drop the baggage - yes, we all hold on to some sort of stuff, regardless how much we think we've worked through, but at least you can say that you KNOW you, and the recognition of your good and bad is a step in the right direction.
manipulation does not work, its like chasing rainbows. be yourself and life (from the list) will drop into your lap. it takes work on yourself, faith, trust and gratitude to God for what IS in your life already.
~ love & gratitude ~
if ur already engaged to someone...i dont see how u can fall in love with another? and if it does happen...then who's to say it wont happen again and again...fine one...and stick to him/her. end of story
You can't commit yourself to someone and just dump him/her because you realize you're in love with someone...unacceptable anyway you look at it.
But, who are we to judge one's way of the heart....
If I were the person...I'll go somewhere by myself (change of scenery, so to speak), away from everyone I know and relax, chill out so I could think clearly...and whatever the decision I make, good or bad, I am alone to face it's consequences blaming no one but my self...
No chance for another one.
:-D
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
If you have really loved someone, you'd never see someone to take he or his place. I someone gets into your heart besides your love, this means that you've never loved him or her. It was just loss of time taken by someone. Follow your heart, but this time be sure that he or she is the ONE.
...Ersin...
in that case i will just get the heart out and throw it or get it locked and keep the access code with my gal only.so no chance for any one to get in.
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And from music & songs I will take you to movies (just to completer our tonight’s entertainment package ) I will the movie ”my best friend wedding” and I will go for this scenario provided that this person is really worth it
Hai friend,
If you really in love...with somebody....
Ur..MIND will not go like this.....If its really come from...the heart.
I am well experieced in that.....
keep try for which u love...
satish
To take another song title:*It`s the classical dilemma between the head and the heart*(from Chris de Burgh).Well,i follow the heart.
:-D
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*