Negativity...
I am just observing lately here in QL and I just can't keep my observation to myself now.
The observation is:
"Some if not Most QLers prefers responding to negative postings..."
Now why did i say that?
Well, let's just take a look at the number of replies on good postings with relevance and compare it to number of replies to postings with so much "negativity" to tell. I did'nt need to explain more, do I?
On why it is happening like that, really puzzles me. :(
Would you care help me see some light here?
i must say, that this topic being devoid of "controversial" sting on it, shall eventually sink
down to obscurity just like the rest.
what to do now?
so be it, if that is the calling of real life...
"but does reality really bites?"
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" fear always spring from ignorance.... "
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"When you're Happy for No Reason, you don't need to manipulate the world around you to make yourself happy. You bring happiness to your everyday experiences rather than trying to extract happiness from them...."
just to quote a phrase from an article i received...
anybody, does it ring a bell?
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" fear always spring from ignorance.... "
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good morning to all :)
let's continue this later, have to work for now ;)
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not done in a certain way that's why they deviate or act "negatively". Although there are some people who turn the negative acts into a productive/positive outcome.
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"proteger a mis seres queridos"
negativity is a necessity, people generally need a reality check.
i am hoping that,
a word or two that can be brought up here shall be able to ring a bell from anyone that can really turn on the light :)
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:)
"sometimes the heart sees what the eyes can't"
i just want to inform, whether it makes sense or not, that i just breached the 1600th posting level.... :P
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OK, back to regular programming :)
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i knew you don't :)
and appreciate it as any word here as i had said might serve as trigger on ringing the bell....
just keep 'em coming :)
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yup francis,
thanks for reminding the purpose of that button.
sometimes i'm also guilty of not using that :/
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it's nothing personal just my opinion...i'm not threathening or provoking somebody to heat up...that's why i said keep it cool...aw!
"sometimes the heart sees what the eyes can't"
you are right! yano, EGO, in a negative thread, everyone comes up with their own idea, without any second thought. Thanks for the creator of QL, has anyone wonder why there is a Preview comment button? Maybe it's for us to make a second look of what we are posting.
is that a warning, or deliberate thought provoking?
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you got it almost as near to an article's context which i just received in PM,
maybe, if i may ask permission from the sender,
that we can discuss this subject more freely ...
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...anger is only one letter short of danger!
"sometimes the heart sees what the eyes can't"
EGO!
that's a big word!! now that is really something ...
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Most of the negative issues, comments, topic makes the human brain to respond in a rational manner coz at times it affects the ego of the person...
"sometimes the heart sees what the eyes can't"
as simple as the law of attraction applies, if it's a negative vibe, it will attract negative thinkers, disguised as positive advice, remember the law of magnetism? opposite poles attract but like poles repel.
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some keen observation you got there JJ.
and filled with truth as well,
just like last week... my list of "negative threads"
are already overflowing at the rim :(
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maybe we can learn "human behavior" as observed from real life happening....
just like this one observation, we may get to learn something from here. who knows....
i am active in trading and i get to observe as well that traders do act in unison most of the time... governed by this so called "human behavior"
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QL has a circle of life. This time of year is, I believe a negative time, it's getting too warm and people are fed up and looking forward to the summer vacation. The jolliest time on QL is late summer, early Autumn. Lots of new people and the old ones refreshed from their holiday.
yeah PA, seems like it. as i had observed...
and still puzzles me why?
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"negative" threads tend to be an exciting target for those who simply wanted their life to be thrilling and avoid a monotony. Just like the news, negative news sells more to the public than a positive one.
"Adda ti adal na, ngem awan ti sursuro na."
now even science is getting involve as well.
i wonder if anybody can give any profound explanation...
any psychologist out there?
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Scientists call that "negativity bias" - primitive survival wiring that causes people to pay more attention to the negative than the positive.
but how about the bashing of the "negative" thread author?
does it imply any intellectuality?
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intellectual discussions on negative postings?!
hmmmm... that is something to think about :/
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You must be bored.
...or maybe most negative postings can go on for a long intellectual discussions...
"sometimes the heart sees what the eyes can't"
maybe because its a challenge to them and they want others here to know that they are smart.
" In my opinion only. . . nothing personal"
it's probably another thing.. :P
does it mean this or that or maybe another thing?
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