Is it ok to select a older person as your soulmate,as your wife?
By procrastnator •
what if a man is deeply in love with a women say about 15years older to him and even she is. what would be the ultimate outcome of that relationship as time passes, years pass. What would be the outcome of that relationship.
Screw that... My wife is 6 years older than me and I have never loved anyone as much as I love her. There certain things in life that one can not change, and that my friend is love. The heart wants what the heart wants. Dont be crazy like the Salmon and swim up steam, go with the flow and you will be blessed with many years of joy love and happiness.
Just make sure it is love and not a game.
Waz
well, time will tell ... its will be hard for the kids when the grow up.
love has no limits, no borders , if you feel that is really sincere love as you both share it !!!! ,,, Why not if ? as you really feel that its your soulmate , go ahead and fight strongly to win it . do not think about the others ....it is your private life ,,,, go a head and think one more time before you leap ,good luck sir
It is ok! why it shouldnt be? But you have to be prepared.. of what others will think about it (which i think should not be an issue), generation gap as well., by the time your 45, she's 60... those are the things that you need to consider, but if you really feel that you love her and you can accept those facts, then go for it., i know some people who have a successful marriage despite of their age gap.
same situation with my friend dear, he loves a girl and she is 18 and he is 31. both love each other.. tell me, kia un ki shahdi munasab rahay gi? age difference ki pro tu ni ho gi??
same situation with my friend dear, he loves a girl and she is 18 and he is 31. both love each other.. tell me, kia un ki shahdi munasab rahay gi? age difference ki pro tu ni ho gi??
Don its nothing personal and i juz asked a casual question as to what would be the outcome of that relationship, Thanks for your reply, Cheers.
the ulimate outcome will be visible after 15 years as both of get older and older you will find your self unable to relate to her due to this vast age gap between you and being human you wish you had reconsidered this decision.
trust me this is all a state of mind and wont last forever BLIND LOVE and anything related to that is good for movies in real life you have to think practically.
think about the social life after marriage....think about your children when they grow up.....think about how your parents will accept this....
finally if you are still blindly in love with this AUNTY then GOD BLESS YOU....