HOW CAN I BREAK TO MY GIRL FRIEND

in a relationship, if you are always quarrel and hurting each other in any means....better that you break-up.

Thank you very for your opinion, You are all true but despite of it I dont know what will be my decision because I'm so tired explaining every time, Im tired of shouting through phone and Im tired of what she is doing to me.......

BROD, YOU ARE A FILIPINO AND YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO. FILIPINO'S DONT BREAK TO THEIR GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE FOR A LITTLE MISUNDERSTANDING. MAYBE THERE IS SOMETHING THAT YOU DONT WANT TO SHARE. THE ONLY REASON FOR A FILIPINO TO BREAK UP TO HER GIRLFRIEND IS THAT, THERE IS ANOTHER PARTY INVOLVED. EITHER ON THE BOYFRIEND OR AT THE GIRLFRIEND. SINCE YOU ARE HERE AS ONE OF THE OFW WHO LEFT THEIR LOVED ONES IN THE PHILIPPINES, I THINK YOU ARE ONE WHO IS INVOLVED IN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP THAT IS WHY YOU ARE ASKING HOW TO BREAK UP WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND LIKE MOST OF THE KABABAYAN DO.TO ALL THE OFW'S, PLEASE DONT FORGET THE REASON WHY YOU ARE HERE. WE LEFT OUR COUNTRY FOR A GREENER PASTURE, WE PROMISE TO OUR LOVED ONES THAT WE ALWAYS LOVE THEM NO MATTER HOW FAR WE ARE WORKING BUT, SOMETIMES PROMISES ARE MADE TO BE BROKEN. LIKE A FILIPINO SAYING, " PALAY NA ANG LUMALAPIT SA MANOK"

I may not be an expert but I knew exactly how it feels. You know dude I’m sure you don’t understand her right now. You felt bad about it because you care and still loved her and you are aware that she’s the same. You felt in prison because despite of being loyal, she’s still nagging... you just said that you are giving all to her and working for both of your future and also for her to become happy but just look what is happening.. Sometimes we are forgetting the main reason of our hard working... wealth is useless if its purpose is not worthy. My girlfriend cries that kind also like dying as you told... and my heart breaks whenever it will happen. It felt so guilty for me even there nothing wrong I did. She became more sensitive and pessimistic. Im about to lose patient that time also but to think the years we spent with and seeing pictures showing our good memories, I just realized the fact. Now I understand that she’s only longing for my embrace and missed me so badly that’s why she’s making fight. So then she can feel me emotionally. She really loves you dude because if not... she don’t waste time and tears for a miled-away person like us.. We just have to figure out what is the best way to do for our better and good.. Not for worst... don’t waste all just for that.. Let’s just handle things right and bear it like a man...

Give my number, i will do that!!!!!.(trust meeee)

KABAYAN BREAK IT UP

I can imagine now the problem that you are facing. We call this nagging. Just like the person you love accuses you of every fault or mistake that you didn't do. Well we have this kind of love. Maybe she loves you like crazy but still it is immature. Have you tried explaining to her that her attitude is not doing any good for your relationship?

I can imagine now the problem that you are facing. We call this nagging. Just like the person you love accuses you of every fault or mistake that you didn't do. Well we have this kind of love. Maybe she loves you like crazy but still it is immature. Have you tried explaining to her that her attitude is not doing any good for your relationship?

Yeah Im doing, I dont want to talk to her, but she always texting a heavy words. And if you see her she looks like dying crying. If I will not reply to her tx in one minute she will say something, If Im not online she will say something, Then afterwards I will explain but she cant understand that I was here to work NOT to talk and text everytime. I was never been committed to any lady since I was far from her..Sometimes I will lie to her that we dont have internet so I can go out and buy something or otherwise I can attend party to some friends. Everyday when I talk to her I felt I did mistakes the way she talks to me,no greetings in the morning then she will get angry at the 1st message, never ask HOW ARE YOU before starting to say something. My parents already met her and I met her parents too regardless that she helps me before when I was nothing until we stay together w/o any legal papers.

Are you sure you want to break up with her or are you just upset now about her attitude? I know it is difficult to handle a woman who always thinks that you are doing something without any proof. Think about this carefully and if you are sure about your feelings then there is sure way to break up with her. Like for example, let her feel that you not interested anymore in your relationship.

I love her but everytime or everyday she's giving me headaches, telling things impossible and what im not doing, she creates things from her friends ideas or what she seen to others, I felt i was in prison, i dnt have time to go even in grocery, if im not online and she knows im in work she will say something to me, sometimes she will say we will break but if i say yes then she will cry like she is dying. Im afraid that to be happen..what will i do........

There is one question that i want to know from you?Do you still love her inspite of her attitude?If so, then better to sit and talk heart to heart what was the matter as she become like that. You know what, in a relationship, we are the one whose very emotional that we did not notice that we are doing such. Maybe its not the solution to break with her. Just show to her that you are faithful, and she's nothing to worry and eventhough its hard to show just always make her feel that you love her.