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hi i just want to gather some advice from u guys,i wanted to go qatar to work carrying bussiness visa but my partner give me advice to stay in philippines for good but he is not with me he is working also in gulf area,he give evrything i need to the point he will buy a car for me just to stay in philippines but my point is i wanted to help him to earn and save for the future,please need help and ideas if ill just stay and wait him until go home or i must go and work so that i can help him save for our future........
i know its simple but truely i cant decide coz my family wanted me to go but he wanted me to stay.......
thanx plsssss heeeeelllllllpppppppppppp
i know the fact going area carrying only bussiness visa is quite risky,but my point,what may be the outcome im not know yet but i can still go home if no luck hehehe sounds crazy decision......
i know my partner have his own reason but i need to help him especially now a days couples should help each other ryt?????????
i talk to him many time almost daily but only by phone coz he is on gulf area,
yes guys i need to talk to him heart to heart but its hard bcoz its miles away our distance
my fmily pushing me to go coz they need my help too if only my husband will work my help is limited too....
thank you all............ for the advice
I think your partner is right, for one thing working in Qatar on business visa is illegal,( better come on work visa) some employer will just abuse you..they will promise so many things and in the end it's just empty promises...if you really want to be with him, talk it out...also if you will go to Qatar and he is staying in another gulf area...you are better off in the Philippines...it's the same situation you are still away from each other..
" i know its simple but truely i cant decide coz my family wanted me to go but he wanted me to stay......."
---> Does your family destitute for money and wanted you to come to the gulf to work?
he dont wants you to come and to help him?
sounds a bit strange for me.
i agree with the coment above.
you both need to talk and you need clear explanations of him.
no excuses but clear facts.
good luck and all the best
On ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur, l'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux.
(Antoine de Saint-Exupery)
I think it's better for you people to talk...just be with him at the same time earning...that would be better....if you both can :)