My wife cheated on me?

Verin
By Verin

What I should do, who can advice me??

By acchabaccha• 24 Dec 2018 15:05
acchabaccha

After reading your one-liner, it makes me very difficult to comprehend how you could be so sure on your claim. Having passed quite a deal of time as a married man, I have seen much of experiences one goes through to maintain a happy married life. For a marriage to be successful, both the wheels must turn in unison. Doubts on each other have no place at all. And let me tell you it's not always the woman's fault when matters come to losing trust. There are men around who simply don't have the psyche to understand females. Not just that, there are some who are by nature hypersensitive and watch every move of his wife through a hand lens and look for any sign of infidelity. I had a colleague here several years back who would get very upset when he would make surprise calls to his wife back in his country and not find her present at home. He would keep wondering where she had gone to or who could have come to his home. If you fall into such category of men, then you are simply making someone woman's life miserable, that's all.

Suggest you correct yourself first before you come out on a social website announcing that your wife is cheating on you. No proper sane and matured person would ever take such a wild step.

By mohdata• 24 Dec 2018 11:50
mohdata

If you only suspect her and have no proof or concrete evidence, then there's nothing to say other than that you should make sure that what you accuse her of is true; but if there is no doubt about it and if you have no children; my personal attitude is that I'd never cheat on my loved one and I'd never take her back if she did so; especially after marriage and the promise of being ever faithful to each other; whatever you decide to do, make sure you think through it many times over; use a balanced mix of your head and heart; listen to everyone but in the end do what your heart and mind tell you to; if you're religious, ask God to guide you; I'm not married, never been in love and so I can't even imagine the pain of being in this situation but i can imagine the mental state that made you ask us this on ql.. Wish you strength and patience through this and my only advice would be to be very careful with your decisions if you have innocent children involved. It's sad that the cheater cheats and then its those who love them that pay the price.

By Angelo• 24 Dec 2018 07:38
Angelo

Hope you have due diligence on the matter before taking steps forward. It is not easy. Best first step is to talk together or with an adult neutral person present.

I strongly suggest, don't break up the marriage, unless both are totally convinced that separation is the best.

I wish you all, the best.

By Mumbo7879• 24 Dec 2018 06:29
Mumbo7879

Take a break . If u were taking care of ur wife . Then stop taking care of ur wife . Kick her out n let her realise who takes care of her if she doesnt have u

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