harrasing by arab guy
By scaredwoman •
Hello! I need some advices.here's the story..
I meet a guy 2mos ago,we were dating and going out with my friends.im married already.then I feel ive falling in love with him.even I have husband and he accept that.but when I tried to break up with him his doing crazy things things and even told me he will tell to me my husband about us.yes im such a stupid cos I let myself to go with him and have relation with him which is a big mistake.now I wanted to leave him but he alwats telling me he will never leave me even I dont want to continue the relationship with him.what can I do to stop this?pls help me..thanks
u both should be deported....and u should be stoned....and let ur husband marry a honest woman
'scaredwoman' didnt u find any better id to keep ? :(
wot next ? ....'ditchedwoman' ?
@ scaredwoman: Hopfully he is Indian Guy....is it...?If his indian Please give me his condact number , we (indian welfare)will do solve it....
Thanks
Rimz....
Scared woman that was the fun part now...now this is level two... lol
You made a separate id only for this interesting topic... or can we expect more of similar interesting topics?
Why kick me ?
I didnt do anything....:(
Infact, its a mutual agreement.
Tell him that you also tell his wife!
happygolucky: Good point. I have asked a local detective agency - "Lungi Lookup" to try and get the guy's side of the story. Will keep you posted.
lol....I agree with the second part of the first comment. And dont agree with anyone saying to kick the guy? Why? You just cant come and leave when you want in a guys life. But many of us have that mindset that anything goes wrong between a guy and a gal, start kicking the guy in his balls. Why? May be the guy never was told she is married and she did all the shopping, food etc etc(obviously in return for something) but still? And, have we heard the guy???
Sulieman: My bad. I remember when my Cuban Shotputter left me, how distraught I was. Perhaps , both parties should be named and shamed in QL
kick his balls, every time he gets near you, he will learn and leave you alone
I say , kick that guys butt, or ask your husband to do that...
Well, you have made a major mistake by not being faithful to your husband. In a married life trust has an important role to play. However, it is never to late to realize one's mistake and regret. My suggestion is to get hold of a Qatari friend and ask him to help you out. A single call from him to this person should do the trick.
@suli: never... I don't want to see my self in this condition... m not that much stupid :P :D
britexpat ,,,Pardon me, are we in the Kindergarten :O)
Muhammad Yasir,, LOL, You can also use it :O)
Zafirh ,, You naughty gal, I am faithful and honest, I sometimes feel like an angle :p
@doha Estate : lol dude,,,,,,,hahahahha,,,,,This post reveal the identity of Filipino's,,,,,Salute to this Arabi guy (:
Finally, Money is the key 2 success :)
I believe you have a male friend (better to be a local) who can help you to deal (read: speak) with this brat. Just contact this brat from your mobile, but let your friend speak to him, directly, from the 1st second. Just threat him if he is not stopping he will face a legal problem & if this brat is an expat, tell him than he will be deported easily.
Tell him that you will also inform his family.
Go to your home country secretly and come back after some months. Or tell him that your husband knows about your relationship and he will see you soon or tell to your husband that this guy is molesting me and with the support of your husband complain to police that this guy is trying to rape me.....so many things you can do against him...you are a married lady... (but you should destroy all the evidence).
Send your BF to New York for a KNOCK OUT game...lol
Anything that you may have done that's illegal (I don't want to conclusions) is just as illegal for him.
So if he threatens to reveal things to your husband, he stands the risk of being arrested too.
Remind him of that.
Sulie, from experience? hehehe....
Great Advice Sulie How clever you are :P
Live Free or Die Hard
Tell him that you don't worry and let him tell you husband
but before that tell your hatband that there is a crazy guy is following you and threatening you that he will tell your husband that you are in relationship if you didn't accept him.
BUT that can happen only and if only that crazy guys doesn't have proves that you were in relationship **** If you know what I mean*****
If he tries to scare you, just threaten him that if he talks to your husband, you will say that he tried to take advantage of your PLAIN friendship and will report to the police of the blackmail. Stand up against your fear and you can defeat it. Dont talk to your husband now. Next time try to understand a guy properly before any emotional feelings.
Go and tell your husband everything and apologize... Do or Die this is only the solution may be your Husband will forgive you...
hmmmm.... he will leave you. don't worry. don't take a bath...
Take courage and do not be afraid. Accept the truth that you made a big mistake. \join Handmaids of the Lord at Our Lady of rosary church. The will protect you. Tell your husband what is happening. And dont do it again. Accept the consequences to come whatever it is. Be strong. If your BF is harrassing you call police 999. Plese Dont do it again.
Gerarra what im doing now im fighting with him even in small things.im afraid what he can do to me.
I know what you have to do: reverse psychology! that's the key! got my point?
Yes I know..:( im wrong im just enjoying before with him