Calling for Legal Advice
I dont actually know where to start but God knows how miserable my life is right now. Folks, I wanted to ask for a legal help and advise as well regarding my current situation. As everybody knows, State of Qatar does not actually allows mutual affairs between a man and a woman. However, in the lonesome life I was situated, I met a man in which I fell in love with. But don't judge me the way most of the people would normally think of us. I thank God because in that 4 years+ I was with him, he still respected my entirety as a woman. Please dOnt get me wrong but we never had anything more than hanging out in the few places here in Qatar-nothing more nothing less.
Then came this miserable story. During our years of being together, he borrowed so much of amount of money from what I hardly earned from my job. Well, to sum up with, he really used me for everything. Well, it is already in my personality to help everyone's in need. I never had a doubt to help him anyways, because of the fact that I love him so much. I gave every patience and understanding to the extent of paying his room only to find out that he had sex with so many ladies there. Many of his victims had flew back to their own country because sad to say, many of them got pregnant unexpectedly and this Evil man had to run and escape from his own evil ways. He keeps on continuing this routine until now. But what is my fight on these things? If in bad chance, Qatar does not credit any mutual affairs here. I mean, i wanted to protect myself as well. I dont have any proof as well if into how much he had borrowed from me and knowing he doesnt have any plans to pay me anyways. The fact that he was really good in playing and fooling people. He would always threaten me that he will gonna damage my life here in Qatar. In fact, recently, he had physically hurt me, in ways I never imagine in my life. I am raised by my parents the way I never experienced being slapped and hit by their own hands but with this mighty evil man, i had the fear now. I dont actually know what to do next. If I file any case against him, I dont have any proof anyways. Only SMS of bad conversation has to do. Only thing is, will I be able to surpass this, knowing Qatar regulations on matters like this. All i just want is for him to learn and grow up from his mistakes.... I know so much women will dare to fall in love with him still. He is not hard to be loved by the way.... He was so eager to catch every woman's heart. I wanted him to stop doing evil ways. I wanted him to learn not to pay for everything but Because I know he will never stop until he met his own bad luck. I hope no more women will experience this kind of abuse .
go to the police station and show them the SMS.
It is embarrassing but you have to deal with it if you want it to end.
All he could do is threaten you, but if you will go ahead and report him, it will end.
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I am extremely sorry for you. Really. I would like to say that, just forget what all things happened as far, open out everything with ur best friend and cry louder. And once u r normal, wipe ur tears off and make up ur mind for a new life and move on from this f***ing past.
Ignore him means, avoid him completely and take out his face and the fake love which was shown to you from your mind at all. Leave the money part, you have still time to earn that.
So just try to forget everything and start with a new life.
sad to hear this......i am sure your inbox will be flooded soon... my suggestion will not have any importance. i will say that this platform is not right place to ask for legal advise.
well said qatarisun! but now u know this kind of love is existing here on earth. making love does not define Love at all... Well, im sorry but, i still believe in the sacred thing as marriage before u do something else.. Call me crazy but this happens when you fall too much that you even forget what is losing from you... anyways, You were absolutely right - its my mistake and i should be accountable from it...
even i wanted to be rude to him Mr.Nite_rider, I wont be like him even in my dreams... Well, that sounds a sweet revenge,definitely but no thanks...
Thanks RyanCanuck.... il definitely keep that in mind...thats how terrible some people can be. Lessons learned!
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you got used and abused.. you are not the first and not the last one.. manipulative abusive man is not something really rare
.. run away from him as fast as you can.. why do you care about him "learning from his mistakes"? YOU are the one who has to learn from your mistake.. Don't lend money to anyone, unless you are ready to give, expecting nothing in return.. do not trust a man who has abused you..
“we never had anything more than hanging out in the few places here in Qatar” - what kind of “love” is that for over 4 years?
at the same time he got many of his women "pregnant unexpectedly" (how has THAT happaned??), and you still used to give him money? I think you have to seek a mental help, lady.. sorry..
But what a man!! High class con-artist! lol..
Can someone translate? What is night rider talking about? 'I am not a Facebook to be liked'? What language are we speaking?
It means you need a grammar lesson :]
What does that even mean?
Go Ahead
But am not interested
I think you need a grammar lesson.
I Never Said To Listen
Above was my opinion choice is hers
Don't listen to night rider. Cut your loses and move on. Terrible that he slapped you. If he comes near you again, call the police.
Continue the Affair
Your Time to Cheat Him Down Recover Your Money , Let Him Fall Into The Trap
Thanks a lot Molten Metal. Well, I guess,let the will of God be done... maybe not this soon,but Karma is always around i believe so...
i do! but thats how stupid I was for still accepting him after a million of sorry's from him. Call me stupid and martyr ,but this time around, when I learned that He got another child outside the country, I think I should go far beyond this stupid love. All I want is for him to learn this time. How poor that child is because till now, he wont even accept it and keeps on denying it!
Thanks dezertryder anyways.
very much costly sacrifice .. hope it won't go without due rewards for you ..
My prayers for you ... !!
how u didnt notice his game with other women in past 4 years