Seven things women want in men...
whats your views Qlers.....
1. Honesty: Always. When in doubt, be honest. Every. Single. Time. There is, however, something to be said about tact. You don't need to explicitly spell out how and where and why that dress makes her look fat, but you can let her know that it's not quite as flattering as the black one.
2. Spontaneity: Don't let her get bored with you – and changing up the routine will also ensure that you won't get bored with her. Maybe you're hot and cold and that daily fight adds some extra spice to your relationship – just be careful, too many days like that and even the fights become boring.
3. Support: Make her feel like you're on her side – even when you're not and especially in front of others. You need to present a united front. And when you're not, why aren’t you? Be sure to choose the right time to address any differences – don't make her feel attacked or she will immediately go on the defensive and good luck making her feel supported at that point. Remember: It's the two of you against the world, not the two of you against each other.
4. Drive: You don't necessarily need to have your whole life figured out, but she needs to know that you've got some ambition. Show her you have goals and are working towards them and she'll believe in you and your dreams even in the moments when you don't. And do the same for her.
5. Quality time: You don't need to spend every waking moment together – and you shouldn't. But make sure that the time you do spend together is filled with discovery and depth, from activities to conversations. Explore a new hobby together, share a childhood story that you haven't before, indulge in a common guilty pleasure.
6. Quality attention: Don't be overbearing and don’t be neglectful. Seek to be somewhere in between the two extremes that’s comfortable for both of you. Show her you care, but don't be too controlling. Give her space, but be there for her when she really needs you.
7. Independent and dependable: A healthy relationship requires both sides. Don't project your mommy issues or past trauma with ex-girlfriends onto her. It's not her problem or her fault. At the same time, help her work through her issues by being supportive (see number three), but don't be her emotional crutch. It's not your problem or your fault, either.
is it more enough or you want to add some? if you think something is missed in these 7 things you can add more.... :)
:O noted...
Last point...........women doesn’t like frequent transfers.
@MM: hmmmm I think it depends how you deal how you treat....
Yasir, Then you have the skills your future life-partner would like ........... .... Sun, 21.09.2014, 08.26 hrs
Silver , I support the women folk & expect some efforts from the guys who just watch TV in their free time & escape from the house work ......... Sun, 21.09.2014, 08.25 hrs
@silver sis: uff aap :D hahahaha ma chota hn ap se :P
I really didn't understand this line "muje tho bahin be hai nahi! "
I think aap ye kehna chah rhi then k meri to koi behan bhi nh ha....! isn't it ?
ok.jaise aap ke marzi!(As u say)LOL
@silver sis: :D hahaha nice try you need to learn urdu/hindi more any ways well try :D
And finally Mast's question has hit the target..lol...Continue your research,Yas,good luck
Molten,kyo plural kiya mere username ko??muje tho bahin be hai nahi!LOL..
@MM Bhai: ohhh come on that i know its just a small thing.... and m ignoring last line of your comment...
@MK: ha ha ha I don't know research is going on I think it will takes ages to complete this research... :/
What's going to happen if Yasirs learn - suei dhage se ek button lagana - in an urgent situation .. .. many Silvers' be able to breath easy & lives would be a bit comfortable ... Thu, 18.09.2014, 08.55 hrs
Yasir bhai when are you going to get married after writing and finalising the above biography which is never going to end.....................?
okae okae I got it :o I think you are getting emotional now :P
Basically there two types of the pain. 1. Physical 2. Emotional. First one is related to the body & easy to cure & 2nd is related to the thoughts so it needs a day & night talking & discussing { don't mix ... cussing with this ...kissing }. Unfortunately it's the patient which gets killed & pain remains on the side ....... ..... so genuine Pain Killers are very rare to find. ................................ Thu, 18.09.2014, 08.15 hrs
@silver sis: ha ha ha... :D
hmmmm right well said... :) have a nice weekend to you and to all qlers...
Molten & Yasir,LOLZ......Am sure your diary might be overflowing with points by now Yas.:)Whatever it is, just keep in mind- never expect a relationship to be too much spick and span. Live each day by giving and forgiving.Whatever u do for the other do it with love.The 4 letter word has all the magic in itself.
Enjoy your day guys
@MM: so are you a genuine pain Killer for someone ? :)
@MM: cooking is fine & massage techniques(for the loved one only) everyone knows about it :) but stiching no way.... :/
He must be a genuine Pain Killer .... ................... Thu, 18.09.2014, 07.23 hrs
Should know basic cooking , stiching & massage techniques .......... Thu, 18.09.2014, 07.22 hrs
@silver sis: Thank you hmmmm your point is also valid noted in my diary... :) hehehe
You've got some great points above Yas,good job. Well....would want him to to appreciate all my imperfections....'coz it’s my quirks that makes me… Me..LOL.Also,the mutual love we share should be unconditional.
how much broad can you please explain it :P
22. broad minded -------->>>> *_*
@rizks: done boss I have added one line :)
21. Should know how to tie the shoe lace....:(
22. Should be Tall dark and handsome
......Yasir, change the title of this post, hav given more then 7 things....:)
20. Humble like Zafirah ! :)
@zafirah: he he he... :)
19. child at heart - like MYS.... ^_^
A funny man :)
hahaha... bald is okay :)
18... have a sense of humor ---- like rizku! ^_^
ROFL, good one ! :)
now I will add one :P
17. shouldn't be bald :P ;)
13. Nice house
14. Pet loving
15. His guy should not stare at her sister or any other gals.....:)
16. Hygenic
.... to be continued ! :)
will wait for your comment rizks :D
9. Credit/ Debit cards with maximum amount
10. Nice Car
11. Loveable
12. Naughty
....lemme think more, will share ! :)
@zafirah: ehm ehm okae :p :D
@rizks: buhahahahaha :D noted :P
i wish to add something too.... but it's a family site - so i'll just pm you... ^_^ ...... "like" for rizku comment... ;)
8. Good in Bed.....:)