AmAm: Why does it concern you who is in no way related to the husband or the wife when they should get married? Who are YOU and your close buddy at QL to advise them on their personal matters? Why don't the two of you mind your own business? The person was just seeking help in getting a court marriage done, that's all. But one at QL who "specializes" in giving unwanted silly advice to everyone, asked the husband to wait till the festival of lights. Why?