Mary,
Everyone is reading your version of the events of B. desh. While many may not agree to this version, yet there is no harm in noting that Pakistan was ruled by military dictators for most of its history, who had total military mind, that only talked about guns and none. Let us postpone the B. desh issue for taking up some times later in a separate and exclusive post, and talk more about the Kashmir, which is suffering on piles of dead innocent Kashmiris.

Let them go for a referendum. If Ranjeet Singh Raja was there today, he could have agreed for such a referendum after seeing so much of resentment and sufferings.