thanks guys...need all the best wishes i can get...telling you guys about all this got me all nostalgic...these are thoughts i try to avoid because they hurt..but yeah people of my age; we are all at that crossroads i guess, where its time to take some decisions, even if it means leaving everything you know behind..oh well, never mind, we'll cross that bridge when we get to it....for now, we're here, we're free and we have a car...let's go for a drive!!! haha...oh and hey, i'm never going off QL, you guys will have to leave yourselves or just outright die to be rid of me :-) yalla good night, until tomorrow :-)