if you enjoyed some freedom in your ex-marriage you would lose it in islamic marriage , no cautionary guides available for such step , just it is a personal and cultural matter rather than religious matter , humans are same every where , and your question correlated with that person precisely whether is he educated enough to respect rights of woman and on you whether you will respect his orientations , I have a few pal who are married from various nations and religious and are happy with their experiences , and that is not guaranteed the relation definitely since failure could cordon any relation and under any circumstance unless there are common ground of mutual understanding and acceptance