Thanks for all of your advice.
as he told me yesterday
his future not with me. for almost 2 yrs that he has no work but im still with him bevause I know that I have reaponsibility to him as his wife and now he got a job he didn't need me. He used me only.
he didn't even tell his family whos the person always beside him when his down.
he is a greedy person.
And his telling me that I destroy his life.