GTA Associates- my husband is weak as it's not the first time he has had an affair & doesn't think until after the event. We loved each other dearly & I've been a devoted wife to him. I have a daughter from my previous marriage who my husband brought up as his own. .... Ace1983 I fully agree it takes two to tango but when he told me she supposedly already has three children from three different men.....well wouldn't alarm bells ring in anyone's head or am I the only woman to think like that. I still love this man dearly so I guess that's why I haven't divorced and this all happened whilst I was nursing my dying father back here in the uk...he also messages me to tell me he misses me & when I've previously spoken of a divorce he has said he doesn't want one yet..but I now believe it's just to save himself from complete financial ruin as his new girlfriend believes him to be wealthy as he has cleverly hid all his debts from her. I know what they've done could easily get them thrown out of the country but not before a prison sentence......I don't think I could stoop that low..I just wondered if anyone has had a similar situation?