not my place to judge this case; but I do feel one's parents deserve the highest honour. The world saw my dad work the entire GCC, climb the career ladder and become a well known banking pro, who even now, post retirement, is hounded by recruiters with lucrative offers. But i saw a rebellious, chain smoking, caffeine addicted, diabetic, heart patient who awoke each day for 40 years to give his kids all that he never had. And today, as an adult, I swell with pride to say I belong to my father (now a weak, tired and grumpy old man) and his wish is my command. Love you dad:-)