and don't make your kids feel the same. Let them be what they wanna be. It would be the biggest challenge of your life.

We are just a little bunch of QLers but as diverse as the whole universe. :) Like you walked out of something and feel happy, and Fathima walked in on something and she feels happy as well. Like me I walked out, had few temporary stations and backed in again on something I feel happy.

It is more often our own self discrimination we put on our parents.. of course it looks like they put limits on us but We always had a choice to accept or reject. We always inherit but want to be unique as well. :) This is my favorite prayer Rabbi-'shrah li sadri