is flued exchange ;)
on the moment you can talk open with your spouse about friendsships you have is that cheating,.. don't thinks,. either party need some kind of privacy.
im against sharing passwords,. that's where there for,. to protect acces by others...
I do thrust my spouse enough and reverse that I don't even feel the urge of checking email or fb acct..
that's being over controlled,.. and can work areverse in any relationship,. which should be build on thrust,. so wy check