THink about it... how many of us men would approach a much larger and stronger man (or even a smaller man... does not matter).... and start swearing at his mother and father for no reason at all... and expect no retaliation... or even appraoch a woman... and do the same... and expect no retaliation.. come on everyone... get real.. bad act is a bad act.. woman man... does not matter... although he should have just divorced her right there right then... perhaps it would be a better decision... but we dont know what really happened.