I did not mention all western women are like that but during my voluntary journey people I met were those who had problems in their life and there was no one to support them. The stories they told me was what happened in their real life.

As long as Western Women is concerned personally in my life after my mom , the women I respect more is a Western. In my communication circle I have at least 12 western friends and they shared their stories with me.

I have friend whose sister was very introvert..she went to a bar once and after few day suddenly she came to her mom and told that she is pregnant. Her son K*( I dont wanna disclose his name) still dont know what is his father's name or where he is. Though she is working hard to give a comfortable life to K* but still he missed something in his life.

Another real story : my friend has a grand daughter whom she is not sure that G* is really her grand daughter as after a short period of time her son broke up with his girlfriend. Now she wants to use a solicitor and want to confirm whether she is her real grand daughter.

My colleague had four kids with three women...one from legal marriage and other three were accidents. He is divorced..kids are living with his mom (I mean grandma)..Though he is sending money every month and paying mortgage but still difficult for kids..cuz now their moms are married or in relationship with someone who is not their father...

Like in our countries we say "Stranger in my bed" there it is like "Stranger in their families"

One of the main reason behind all these bull5hit is having sex before marriage...

May be it is my bad luck that people I met so far told me their stories as such...may be my observation will change after my world trip.

I really dont have any problem if someone sleeps with someone before/after marriage but I have reservations if for the pleasure of few hours if someone's life (kids) is distracted or compromised.

P.S. I really dont care about what you think about me I can accept your views over media and but not for something I heard from someone who was involved directly.