I agree with you 100 percent. People have their own preferences.. If a white person wants to marry another white person or a black to another black or an Asian to another Asian, it means they prefer someone from their own race but definitely does not deem them racist. A racist is a person who feels he or his race is superior to other race. Even for friendship, people belonging to a particualr country, religion and who speak a particualr language will always want to hang out with someone who belongs to a similar background but that too does not make one racist.