The same story with our Secretary too...but they want to get marry after proper annulment.

I think your X husband will also help you with the annulment procedure to go faster as he asked you the forgiveness.

Please read this they have explained all cases of your situation http://spa.qibla.com/issue_view.asp?HD=12&ID=176&CATE=11

Welcome to the rational living.. May Allah make it easy for you...