according to me but I would put the woman first do you know why?
Because she can rfuse to make a relationship with that GCC man, and if he try it by force it will be a rape.
That is why it is important to think 1000 time before going for any relationship.
Eveything in this world has a cause and effect.
Both of the man and the woman did not study the consquences and the bad consequences are in many times the result of bad choice and when it comes to the relationship the choice is yes or no.
I still think that the woman is to blamed in the first place because she is the one who accept.
If the man try it by force it will be rape.
Another reason why to blame it on the women which MN-01 refers to first is because they did not study the consequences.
If you do not know how to swim and you through your self who will you blame.
The man who shows the meaning of what does the word man will carry the responsibility and solve the problem in its early stages and will study the consequences before and after having the problem and how to overcome the problem.
The honest man will never ever look at women as toys just pick one and if you do not like throw it.
Man should study the consequences as well as the woman (either they are student or not)