Let me ask something Spybot! If you were made believe that you were going to have a future with somebody and a lifetime commitment and this person everything coz you actually believed they were going to be with you for all time.
Your were lied and made to believe that you were going to be the wife and then you get pregnant who is more at fault? The man or the woman.
Then who is left to raise an abandoned child? the man or woman? So who deserves the greater support the man or woman?