That feelings must be controlled or just leave it as it?
Your statement
"That's why people who have 'feelings' suffer in society"
so you link the cause of the suffer which some people have in their life is because they have feeling, in which context this true?
See Thelonius you put all the people in one bag and this not logic.
Now take this example:
A man is living in his house with his family and suddenly a war started between his country and another country and an air plane hit his family and died while he left work but it was too late and now he is suffering the great loss, do you think it is fair to link the suffer to his feeling?
Thelonius do you want to say that people should not have feeling?
If some tried to get work but couldn't how is this linked to the feelings?
I really your remarks and replies are amazing.