without knowing too much about you or your exact situation, all i'll say is this..if in your heart, you fully know this man to be a good human being, to be the sort of person who will never put you in a position to need your rights, who you trust with all your heart, who's eyes you can look into and see only truth and devotion; then in that case you don't need to worry about anything else..i know my reply sounds very dreamy and idealistic, but I truly believe that all you need is to make sure that this man is truly what you see him to be..best of luck and i pray you find happiness with him:-)