no problem a will apologize for the statements wich my offended you ;)

i did not claim you where against it,. i claimed that IN MY perspective your way sounds old fashion compared to western standards

still i do have cracy english (hench my name cracydutch) english as for many on this forum is not their mother language as in my case,. i do speak it fluent tough among a few other western languages,. :)
thats wy i will make typos,. if that is bugging you,.well i would say,..what are you doing here then in the first place