ok bro..tell you what..let's put it to rest..maybe you are right about my last comment being a bit too hot..just said i didn't know anything about the whole situation and thus could not treat is as a concrete truth..but i agreed that all the things you mentioned do happen and were sick..still don't see where i went wrong..but i will take your advice and try to be more detached now on..and you can try reading more closely what people say to you..so you don't misunderstand what is being said..apologies for the unpleasantness..have a good day:-)