NM: I see what you mean, and I see the results in person......this is the very reason my beloved wife stays away. She gets down and goes into read mode only, or feels why even sign in to pass the time to comment with some ppl she likes posting with.
She is Western, does answer peoples questions in the q & a section when she knows the answers or gives a link to be more helpful, or lately she tries to comment on a post a OP friend makes, but then no matter what she writes, certain ppl make her feel bad for even being on QL.