Master when you have been on QL long enough as some of us have, you will know to spot the trolls from the real posters.

That being said, seems like the newer members just want to be spoon fed every damn information without using the search first. Most of us get tired of answering the same questions EVERYDAY! If you are looking for something use the classifieds. If you have a question post in the question section. Based on your example tell me what "discussion" can be done on a lady who wants to find a suitable house mate? Wouldn't it be better to just post her requirement in the classified?