I am really sorry for what has happened. I am not married yet
but I have a friend who had a very difficult
situation... She is a single mom with her
son in 20s mentally ill and they put her son in
prison for some unknown reason but after she produce
the reports everything is alright..

She used to attend some seminars of how to manage
your life when you have some difficult situations
like urs.

They used to say you have ur own rights to live
and u have ur rights for ur kids as well but should
be balanced.

If you have tried all ur options and still you did
not get any solution then you have to be happy in
ur life..

I used to advise her that " we have a cosmic
relationship among our blood relatives and true
lovers who meant for us...like if my mom is not
feeling well in my country which much far away from
the place i live..
i still used to have some strange feelings in my
heart which means there is something invisible which
keeps the blood relatives attached together...
so if u want ur kids to be happy u have to
be happy..."

I wish you all the best and I pray May God make it
easy for you to accept the situation and make it easy
for you.