Well, to get serious here. There is something that we, women , must not forget either.
There are , in fact, women who like to be treated like "wrapped lollipops"...they like when men do things for them that they are capable of doing, but do not want to do.
And they take what other women would call discrimination and belitteling to keep what makes then feel comfortable. Now, this is not my cup of tea, but we must accept and respect those women's wishes /lifestyle.
And men have to understand that what is one woman's candy is another woman's poison.