the question is what do you want (one choice only) entertainment and socializing OR a good job?

I think that covers most of your questions...

In regards to the life here... it's pretty restrictive but, as usual, money talks... if you have the money, then you can have a lot of fun (you will need a lot more money if you love clubs and such... if you're more of a shisha and lemon with mint girl... you'll love it here).