How are we sure that OP has been 100/100 in all aspects that she deserves all the positivity and the guy all the negativity. We havent heard the other side nor are we being told. It is a one sided story. In all fairness, I may extend all support and wish all good to happen to OP but would refrain from belitteling the guy. Guys generally dont turn away just like that and exceptions do happen, but we dont know.