well buddy it's an online forum, we are both human beings and will sometimes find common ground on issues close to our hearts and in other instances will hate each other's guts for saying something that offends us or we don't agree with..i have already spewed lava at you haha a few times but doesn't mean i hate you the person..just that i don't agree with what you're saying or the attitude..and at any rate, online forums and their user output shouldn't be taken too seriously:-)