I complitely disagree that some ladies stay in the marrige coz they depend on husbands financally. They stay coz they are afriad to start fresh, and deep inside hope that man will change. Really, how much can you depend on your man financialy? Get divorce and get you alemony money via court! Also i cant get it - how can you be back together with some one who cheated on you and you know that???? How can you sleep again in one bed? If man can not stay without sex, let him use his hands - that's what they are for anyway! Death to cheaters!))))