is evidence that I am aware of my own strenght to deal with my issues how I see fit. Personally, I appreciate the comments and I like what I am getting from all the reactions. Again, this is a life issue and the reason so many responded in such a short time is because most of us can identify with the topic of discussion. Whether from personal experience or otherwise, we all have a story to tell and it is our perogative to tell it how we want to tell it via which ever medium we chose to tell. Again, if you read my initial post, I do not blame the woman as I suggested that there may be husbands at home whose wives are here who may be going through the same thing. Your response too is very appreciated and adds to the variety of voices and opinions on this issue.It just a social comentary.