MM if this is not lecturing what it is:
-It's not just about money. It's about a feeling of self worth and achievement.
-There's also a social element to going to work. You can talk to people about things outside of children and baby stuff.
-It gives you a sense of identity outside of just being a mother.

What if a stay at home doesn’t feel deprived of any of those. Just cos you feel it that way doesn’t mean everyone has to feel it that way.

And a corollary to your suggestion: Since many feel this topic and your thinking on this is written so many times on QL that by now everyone knows by heart what points you are going to highlight, guess you may give rest to this issue…we all are bored to death reading the same points again and again and again from you…:(