And how do you know they haven't done so? Your questions did not address that specific point in any way shape or form. Perhaps you did not mean it, but your questions came across as uncaring and crass. I apologize if that was not your intent.

We all have to be careful about what and HOW we post - we can't see or hear the writer - we can only assess his words based on our own perceptions. Unfortunately, yours were not received as perhaps you intended.