the bush. Honestly, don't you know what is proper and modest?

Actually there lies the danger, how it is interpreted. And WE know very well that when the time comes that a problem arises and need a decision, interpretation that will govern is what is in THEIR view, NOT OUR view.

We have a very popular saying in our country, "maraming namamatay sa maling akala", literally translated as "Many dies of wrong notion". Wrong interpretation or belief what is right and wrong (in this case, what is modest and what is not) may end up in a disaster!