Knight, I seriously do not want my husband to carry my purchases...I find that a bit embarrassing, in fact.

Again, I would certainly NOT ask my husband to advise me in my clothes choices. I know what suits me, no need for him to get involved.

When it comes to grocery shopping I am with Fathimah..he is simply in the way and will unneccessarily prolong things.

I love shopping, he does not. As simple as that.
I mean he does not expect me to advise him when it comes to electronics or cars...so why would I ask him something he has no idea about?