Ana - You have asked 8 difrerent questions but most of them seem to be highly correlated. Below are a few tips if you like to make things simpler for all women to understand. This is not meant as a ' Must Do' list rather a ' Good to-Do' list verified by my own experiences.
1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you. Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He
does not love you and does not value having
you.Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves
you. There is another reason he is not willing to
tell.
2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the
relationship. There is only one reason why he ended your
relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste
your time thinking of reasons or what you should have
done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love
you.
3. Do not get hung up on your past. Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just
because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn’t guard him enough or you didn’t make him happy enough ;)
4. Do not look into images. How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found
out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on
images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not
fear men just because your “supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.
5. Always have your own set of rules. Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy. It’s perfectly ok to
give and do everything as long as it’s worth it..And
it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.
6. Do not be scared to lose him. Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage.Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.
7. Avoid calling your guy all the time. It’s a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it’s
the guy who’s calling, not the girl.He will get tired
of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest
and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it’s
a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy
until you dial his number. But avoid as much as
possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if
your suspicions are reasonable)
8. There is a guy who will value you. There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated,
and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few
weeks together. So don’t lose hope. Don’t settle for a
lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a
man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also,
do not believe him when he says it’s just the way he
really is. He’s not the sweet or expressive-type.
Remember during your first few weeks together? Where
has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into
you anymore.
The above is not entirely original but I'am sure it's a good thing to keep those points in mind. We guys are also human beings (unfortunately) and tend to react to things like normal human beings :)
Ana - You have asked 8 difrerent questions but most of them seem to be highly correlated. Below are a few tips if you like to make things simpler for all women to understand. This is not meant as a ' Must Do' list rather a ' Good to-Do' list verified by my own experiences.
1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you. Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He
does not love you and does not value having
you.Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves
you. There is another reason he is not willing to
tell.
2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the
relationship. There is only one reason why he ended your
relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste
your time thinking of reasons or what you should have
done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love
you.
3. Do not get hung up on your past. Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just
because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn’t guard him enough or you didn’t make him happy enough ;)
4. Do not look into images. How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found
out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on
images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not
fear men just because your “supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.
5. Always have your own set of rules. Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy. It’s perfectly ok to
give and do everything as long as it’s worth it..And
it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.
6. Do not be scared to lose him. Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage.Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.
7. Avoid calling your guy all the time. It’s a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it’s
the guy who’s calling, not the girl.He will get tired
of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest
and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it’s
a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy
until you dial his number. But avoid as much as
possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if
your suspicions are reasonable)
8. There is a guy who will value you. There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated,
and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few
weeks together. So don’t lose hope. Don’t settle for a
lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a
man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also,
do not believe him when he says it’s just the way he
really is. He’s not the sweet or expressive-type.
Remember during your first few weeks together? Where
has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into
you anymore.
The above is not entirely original but I'am sure it's a good thing to keep those points in mind. We guys are also human beings (unfortunately) and tend to react to things like normal human beings :)