I know how ya feel and I used to be this way to in the past. But trust me,the saying be nice to your enemies.. it drives them crazy often rings true! In fact I only started following this theory when I learned it was a trait of our Prophet, and how it worked in his favor.
And truly the kind of peace and triumph I feel now with this attitude has totally made my life far better as opposed to bitter!
And yes my days same o'l, but wish ya a fab one =D